HANDLING THE LOSS OF A LOVED ONE

There really is no easy way to tell someone that his/her loved one is gone to the world beyond. Most people get really angry when in a fight and say every nasty thing percievable to the human ears, but when it come to death; the death of even that one who they seemingly hate... they are broken from within. No one can feel for you at these times, even that friend who has lost his mum or child cannot understand what you are going through, now that your mum or your only child have passed on. The fact is, you and you alone are responsible for how the situation affects your life.

It could be your muse or the bane of your existence.

The choice is always yours at all times, to decide what to make of life after the demise of a loved one. Most people who loose a loved one sometimes forget that they owe it to that person to be the best version of themselves while they still have time here on earth.

How long can you really mourn?

Your entire life?
Tell me, if that child of yours could talk to you or maybe it's your mum, or anyother close relative, or friend... what do you think they would tell you?

Hard truth is...THEY ARE GONE!!!

So whether you drown yourself in tears or jump off that cliff because you can't seem to live without that person, I ask that you take a minute to think of the fact that you have been lying to yourself for a while now. I mean 2 seconds after the person dies, you were still breathing... and you are probably going to eat dinner this night to get strength for your sessions of wailing tomorrow. Face the fact, you need to chin up and be the best version of you.... for the sake of that person.

Your approach to life

Now that you have lost that special person, it would be unfair to the world if you decide to stay detached... with the mindset that everything comes and goes , so why care?
There is a lot life still has to offer. Stay free-spirited and meet new persons that would help you move on.

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