• Ever wonder when a woman likes or not? Body language experts have come up with 100% accurate cues that show if a woman is attracted to someone or not. If men knew this most would not have to waste time buying certain women gifts and trying to get recognized by certain women who do not enjoy their company. Also some men would approach and date the women they want instantly if they could read the signs thrown to them by women everyday. However the later is not common than the former.

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Body language : A brief introduction

• This is the way we communicate daily via our facial expressions, hand gestures, leg movements, eye movements, posture to mention but a few. I think we have all heard about the statement that says 'Action speaks louder than words'. According to Body Language experts over 60% of our communication is through body language.

• For instance we all have learnt whats good and bad via looking at other peoples body language cues. Since we were 2-3 years we could read our mother's faces and see if they liked what we have done. At school you could have identified bullies by the way they kick and push other students from afar. Also you know instantly if someone likes you by the way they smile when they see you. Even if you might not know Body Language you will know instantly if the smile is genuine or fake through your instincts.

• The field of Body Language has been studied by many experts and is rich with great discoveries and researches.Normal people like you had to sit down and see what every signal people do mean. Many Professors and Doctors and Students had to study people to come up with all these unconscious and conscious cues of communication

• To succeed in business and life there is need to understand those you work with and body language is one of the solutions. The field of Body Language is a well studied area by many psychologists. It is believed that over 60% of our communication is body language, 30% is via listening to another person's voice tone and only 7% of human communication is understood via vocal words. If you think for some time what this means you will see that it means that our words are less important than our non-verbal cues when communicating.

• Also know that you cannot fake body language. You might hide it for a second but it dominates all the hours.- Allan Pease.

• According to Allan Pease a Body Language expert to read body language accurately you must have 3 or more clues or else you might misread others which will be wrong.

Students and Academics who want to know more about advanced body languages may like these sources:

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• The Body Language Documentary

• Uncovered: The body language secrets of the key figures of 2017

• Body Language Expert Keynote Mark Bowden at TEDx Toronto — The Importance Of Being

• Your body language may shape who you are | Amy Cuddy

• Body Language Secrets From The Worlds #1 Ranked Body Language Expert (Mark Bowden

• BBC Documentary Body Language Full History Documentary HD

• Body Language, What You Need To Know by David Cohen

• Body Language Show November 2015

• Making Body Language Your Super Power

• Body Language - The Ultimate Guide

Topic of today : Female to male attraction cues

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Most women send the signs to the men they like consciously and unconsciously. They cannot hide their feelings for someone no matter how. There are many unconscious body language signals women send to men when they feel the warm butterflies inside. These signals are easy to see if you know about them. So here I will share some and explain how you can read these after years of researching from the great authorities.

1 . Touches her hair

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This is the easiest sign to read of all the cues. According to Allan Pease and Babra Pease a woman touches her hair unconsciously to get a man to focus on it and her beautiful face. Most women catch themselves doing this when they see an attractive and high value man around. They are most likely to do this to the men they like. By touching it shes will be unconsciously arousing men to like her on an unconscious level .Men are attracted to dark healthy female hair so this touching of hair has been hard-wired in women for so many years. Its just a normal sign of attraction every man should be able to read.

2 . Flicks her head even without hair

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I am sure most men have seen this but not aware of the cue.This is different from the one we discussed above. Here the head is being move.She might touch her hair or not but the flick of the head will always be there According to some body language experts the flick of hairs unconsciously tell the man 'look at my hair'. The funny his with this is that some women without long hair also do this. I think women unconsciously know that men are attracted to their hair so this is the reason of this flick. Next time you see someone doing it know that there is something magical happening. Also know that this also arouses attraction in some men.

3.Touches neck

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The neck is one of the most sensitive areas on a woman. So if she touches her neck unconsciously that means she is liking the idea of dating you. Most men also miss on this one. Touching it means they are having the desire to be touched on that area. She might also do it to show you how beautiful her neck is although she will be unaware.

4 . Touches lips when talking to you and or lip bite

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When a woman feels the desire to be kissed or touched the feeling is so high that some cannot hide it. Its like when one lies. Most psychologists know that a lie cannot be hidden and this is the same issue here. A touch or a bite is a sure sign of attraction from the woman to the man they like. It might be the right time for the kiss.

5 . Any unconscious touch on her face

Like on number 2 the feeling cannot be contained. For some reasons I do not understand most women touch their face unconsciously when attracted to someone. This might be small touch on their forehead or even a slight touch on their cheeks .This gesture is hard to notice but experts like Dr. Gabriel and Nili Raam could easily notice such cues. By the way remember to check if the other cues are there.

6 . Her body is facing you

If their body is facing you then you have got the green lights. When most women talk to the men they like they will face them with their body torso. This is something they will never do to someone they dislike. Doing this shows they feel free to show you their chest area and there is a certain level of trust from my opinion. The heart area is a special area to let everyone face it.Most people are programmed to protect their front area.

7 . Hands opened and no crossed arms

According to Allan Pease a woman with crossed arms is trying to protect herself from the perceived threats but the one with open arms is happy with the situation. By opening their arms it shows they feel safe with you which is a good sign. Closed arms are no good at all but however in case when its cold shes most likely to close her arms to protect her chest area from cold which is normal. So therefore do read other cues as well.

8 . Genuine smiles and more and more smiles

I discovered that there are genuine smiles and fake smiles. I think its better not to smile than to send a fake smile.A genuine smile is a sure sign of attraction for it shows they like you. Try smiling at someone you hate and see if it comes out. I discovered that genuine smiles have all the upper and lower teeth showing whilst the eyes also smile. Fake smiles have no smiling eyes which is easily noticeable. But hey don't judge if someone likes you by their smile for some will never smile because smiling is not part of them. Other cues will give you the answers.

9 . Proximity to you

Personal boundaries are very important for women. There is a level she expects her lover to be in. If she can get near you to about 30 centimeters nears/apart then know there is some connection. No woman walks with the man they distrust or dislike. However Allan Pease also notes that there are certain cultures where women are free to get in men's personal boundaries. Be sure to check that since it might not be a sign of attraction in other cultures.

10 . More and more eye contact

I am sure people look at what they like most. Men who watch porn watch it because they enjoy watching it. Some women who do not watch Horror Movies may not watch them because they fear them whilst those who watch Romantic movies watch more and more of them because they enjoy them. I think that is the same with women attraction. If you think a certain woman keeps looking a you there is no reason to ask your friend for an opinion. We humans look at what we want. To make this clear ask yourself if you enjoy equal looking at a girl you like or the one you dislike. So the more you see her looks and her maintaining eye contact the higher the attraction.

11 . One leg pointed in your direction

Next time when you are standing as a group check where her leg is pointing at. In fact at a social gathering when most people are standing its most likely peoples legs are facing the most entertaining person. A clear example is when you were at school. Think of when the popular kid would throw jokes whilst everyone laughs. I am sure in future when you get into such an arrangement you will see everyone's first leg points to the interesting group member. So there check if their leg is pointed toward you or someone else's. If its you then you are lucky and if its someone else no worries.

12 . Leg play in heels

If you check the picture on umber 11 is most likely that she is shaking her foot that is in the air. If you see that those are green lights. According to Allan Pease it is most common in Bars and Night Clubs where the few women send these attraction signals to the multitudes of men making men to chase them. If you can read this well then she likes you. But not doing it or any other cue does not mean there is no connection.

13 . Playing with objects unconsciously

Forget about the statement on that picture. The objects I am talking about are watches, water glasses, rings, ear rings etc. If you see her playing with these things then that means shes flirting unconsciously with you according to David B. Givens and those are green lights.

14 . Attentive when you speak

If she is paying attention when you speak that is great. If she cuts you there maybe a problem. However some women are like that and enjoy that. If a woman pays attention to you then she has respect to what you are saying and talking about which is good for you.

15 . Putting on of lipstick before you

This is a good sign.Its either she wants to kiss you or someone else. It depends with how you like each other but if you see this then you have received a green light. Lips are some of the most sensitive areas on a woman just like the neck, ear and scalp are.

Conclusion

We are human beings and body language plays an important part in our lives. In this post I shared some cues I know about female body language. Such include hair touch, hair flicks, putting lipstick before the man, paying attention when the man speak, eye contact and proximity to mention but a few. I had to share what I learnt from Body Language Experts and Psychologists concerning female attraction to men. It is also important to note that many other cues have not been mentioned here. If you have question and suggestions share with me in the comment section.

Sources for further reading:

• https://www.wikihow.com/Read-Women's-Body-Language-for-Flirting

• https://www.scienceofpeople.com/female-body-language/

• http://vkool.com/how-to-read-female-body-language/

• https://www.huffingtonpost.com/vanessa-van-edwards/female-body-language_b_3469175.html

• https://blog.udemy.com/female-body-language/

• https://www.aquiziam.com/female-body-language/

• https://www.amoramargo.com/en/female-body-language/