A very well written interesting post. I guess i'm in the area of i don't necessarily see anything wrong with porn unless it's making you unhealthy in some way. Satisfying your physical urges and desires i don't see that as meaning there is a problem.

I think personally the only issues with sex is when it's meaningless as far as when another person is involved. I guess some would say the mind is the biggest sex organ. So in retrospect it's always someone in my past i've enjoyed better physical sex with than the person i'm with at the time.

Maybe everytime we have sex it's not so great physically. However, mind and imagination and how you feel about the person i think really changes the experience. So i guess in short, even if it's not the best sex but you really care about the person for me it's usually good. I guess because sex as well is a big part of communication.

As far as relationships and gratification of the sexual organs, lol. I don't see them as the same in regards to a healthy romantic relationship necessarily vs hot steamy sex. I sometimes when i'm really into someone don't always want to rip their clothes off, lol. Sometimes i want to rip peoples clothes off i'm not into a healthy romantic relationship with. So great post again. I dont think I'd want to give up porn though lol.