I was saying the sad state of Romanian orphanages solidified our decision to adopt a child in need vs having another biological child, but our daughter was born in South Korea.

I struggle with an inner need to please people and so now this is a challenge for me...you say I made your day when you thought we adopted from Romania. I don't like taking that good feeling away from you, but I can't let that mistaken understanding just hang there giving me karmic credit in your mind. I want to say "please forgive me" but I will just let it be.