Thank you :) I'm glad you connect with it on some level.

Yes, I agree. It's a matter of personality just like how some people are naturally sunny and some people, reserved. Whichever side is picked, the other would judge regardless (at some point or another). If you're too open, others would say something. If you're too reserved, the open people would say something. Really tricky stuff. I think you just need to stick with the people who get you and do what makes you happy (unless it's breaking the law then that's another thing).