RE: I swear, by the moon and the #@?%!
What I will do however is help her to understand the ramifications of action.
That's exactly how the clever & lucid mind of a real parent should work all the time. The logic and rationality which must prevail in us as parents, shepherds and safari guides is simply show and give them the maps. If we trust enough in their intuition & intelligence, they will know it in a jiffy and without the slightest doubt they will follow freely the right path by themselves without the most minimal pitfall.
People talk about free speech but rarely about the right to free reaction.
Wowza! ¡Holy Cow! that bit of enlightenment has never ever has been better said like you just did. I bow at you for that my dear friend.
It could even be seen as a sign of trust between friends.
Always talk, express & show yourself in the most natural and transparent way possible. And behave consistently by those same legitimate principles by all means and obviously through all the sceneries.
The best reward with this will be, be remarkably able to filter the grain from the chaff among all those you stumble upon in your way everyday. And eventually in this way, you will know with amazing clarity who of them is worth to follow you wherever you go.
Dammit!! :)