To reply from the other side.. I live in a cage, and it's excruciating sometimes. Many reasons for which I can't leave, but one especially.. and I do realize that it's a cage and that it's my choice. At least I am closer to opening my cage door than some people. Your words hit me like a mirror this time.

Your entire post reminds me of a favorite quote from one of my favorite V.C. Andrews' books that has stayed with me ever since I was a teenager..
For truth was a bright light, and just like any bright light, it was hard to look into.