Psychology of poverty-10 features

You can not decide what your standard of living, but do not consider yourself rich? And also want to warn or even get rid of poverty, then you need to know the signs of poverty, which you can do work on the mistakes. Man himself builds his own destiny and he chooses how to live, whether poor or rich.

№ 1. Self pity.

You're still crying at night, that your life has gone wrong, that your husband is not like your friend's, and he doesn't buy you a car, a coat, jewelry. Feel sorry for yourself, because you were born a woman and you have, so the fate is such that you find it hard to go through life, to make a lot of money, you have to do a lot of work at home and the children on you? Or do you have an indelible feeling of self-pity, because you are a man and you need to earn money, you have a great responsibility for yourself and your family? Stop feeling sorry for yourself, this feeling will not make your life better, but only negative emotions, disappointment and depression will be added. What's so good about that?

№ 2. Stinginess or greed.

You look around in search of the word "action", look on the Internet for the best deals and sales, the reluctance to pay for a decent education to the child, the limitation of spending money on the child and yourself. All this suggests that the habit of the poor person you have already formed and sits in you so firmly that only hard work on yourself and your qualities will help you get rid of it.

№ 3. Things unloved or hated the work.

Every day you get up in the morning to work with already spoiled mood, you do not want to enjoy a new day, because you know in advance that you go to work, where you have to deal with unloved business? Is urgent to change this sad state of things. As an alternative, you can take a vacation or try to find a hobby, a favorite thing, who knows, maybe it will grow into an additional and good income.

№ 4. Success = money.

Many people who feel an urgent need for money, so think. They measure the success of a person by the amount of money, or Vice versa, they believe that the more money a person has, the more successful he / she is. There is some truth in this. But what prevents you from becoming successful, set real achievable goals and fulfill them?

№ 5. Expenses exceed your income.

If this is about you, and you can not do anything about it, then you can safely state another sign of poverty. You have to learn to distribute your expenses in such a way that you have money left before your salary, and you would not have to resort to debts or loans.

№ 6. All at once.

The poor man has no patience for money. Such people are interested in maximizing profits in a short period of time. This is not only a risk, but also the probability that you will then have to pay more than you can buy. Therefore, money should be treated with respect and patience.

№ 7. Complaining about life.

This habit is not a wealthy man, he whines and complains to life, and solves problems and makes everything to avoid unpleasant moments. Small salary, the worst job, stingy customers, inconsiderate boss. Isn't it up to you and your strength? Try to fix the situation and stop complaining about life.

№ 8. Constant comparison.

You compare yourself to people who have achieved more than you or your relatives, with whom you can not find mutual understanding. The comparison is good only if you draw conclusions and strive for this level, and not when you come to the realization that you are worse.

№ 9. Wealth is measured in money.

And what about the inner world, the outer beauty, the presence of a beloved spouse and children, living and healthy parents. Does this not bring you happiness any more? Do you think that if you become a financially secure person, you will become happy and rich? Wealth is primarily measured by happiness and health, money, of course an important criterion, but secondary.

№ 10. Abstraction from the outside world and from the family.

If you often go "in yourself", arrive in a state of depression, despondency and you have no desire to communicate closely with native people, you are a poor person. And poor not only because you have no money, but because you have a family, and you do not value it and do not appreciate it. Remember, children grow up, husbands and wives leave, and parents are not eternal. Start from now on to live and appreciate everything you have.