That's why I would never invest my time and effort in love other than love for family and love of God. When a becomes too attached to somebody, everything changes - personality, habit, time allocation, decision-making. The sad thing is most of the time, when you love someone, you end up getting hurt.

A woman living without a man is no life at all. But the initial design of God's creation was that Adam could live alone, and it can be true to some men - IT IS true to me. So I'd rather stay single and avoid the risk of being destroyed by love.