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RE: BEING HONEST???? I am Confused

in #personal7 years ago

I think i can rely with ur words upto some extent, I guess u r saying the exact thing which i was getting confused. Sometimes I felt that my partner and I are not the romantic companion as much i desired. although I know he loves me but I can feel my love is fading away.. Thank u for ur comment to help me in better understanding ..

@atomramble following u and hope to stay connected in future..

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Sometimes the concept of love is not as lasting or as much of a "guiding light" as we had hoped it would be. Other things can be just as important in a relationship, but you have to define those things for yourself. Then again, I am someone who has no interest in marriage, having offspring, or traditional monogamy. So perhaps my views are a bit biased.

@atomramble yes i too have the same feeling.. I never felt like to get married or having children or lead a family with traditions .. More like a free soul to roam freely whom need not to think or give reply for any actions to anyone. Just like live as ur own boss , but yeah always wanted a friend or friends with benefits or without expectations , more like partner whom u can live freely.. thats why I am afraid to break up this relation coz i know at this age even i do so i know my partner will never overcome his emotional drainage if i break his heart.. thats why I live with him but not getting with emotional attachment

So you put someone else's happiness above your own?

yes . sort of u can say :/

Well, that is your choice I suppose. Sad that it has to come to that though.