The Barter (or Bargain) Roll - a negotation tool for parents with teens.

Hey there everyone.. (sorry, misspelled negotiation in the title, wanted to get this up quickly)

Well, have discovered a marvelous negotiation tool recently to use with my teen, He's a good kid, but planning... not his strong suit yet. Can mention, "Hey! How many rolls are left in the bathroom?" which usually turns into sullen teen stare (tm). And then the plaintive plea for assistance at a later time.

"Daaaaaaaaaaadddddd... duh.?!"
(pause)
(pause)
"DHaaaaaaaaaaadddddd... DUH.?!!"

"What?"

(pause)
(pause)

"Can I get you to get me a roll of toilet payper...... PHA-LeeeeeeZE!?"
(pause)

"Didn't you check before you went in there?"
(pause)
(pause)

"Can I get you to get me a roll of toilet payper...... PHA-LEEEEEEEEEZE!?!?"

And so it goes.

So the last time we went to Costco and we put a roll into the bathroom, I put aside a roll. Waiting. Soon enough:

"Daaaaaaaaaaadddddd... duh.?!"
(pause)
(pause)
"DHaaaaaaaaaaadddddd... DUH.?!!"

This time, I was prepared.

"What?"

(pause)
(pause)

"Can I get you to get me a roll of toilet payper...... PHA-LeeeeeeZE!?"
(pause)

"Didn't you check before you went in there?"
(pause)
(pause)

"Can I get you to get me a roll of toilet payper...... PHA-LEEEEEEEEEZE!?!?"

So, plan in action.

"I've asked you more than once to check before you went in there, this time, I'm going to ask.. What will you do to have me get you a roll?"

(pause)
(pause)
(pause)
(pause)

"What do you mean?"(/deflect)

"I've got a roll right here. And I'll give it to you, but I want you to do some work for it."
(Deflection cancelled.)

I could hear the teen angst rolling out from under the door like fake smoke at a Van Halen concert.

Things continued like that for a teensey bit longer:

And finally, acceptance:

"What do you want me to do?"

Garbage clean up, and dishes to commence tomorrow.

I think it's an important life lesson in planning, sometimes literally and figuratively... you need to deal with your own crap.

Thank you, I'm here all week.