Are You In The Right Circle?
Sometimes it’s just a simple quote what makes you think twice!
Where do you belong?
Are you in the right circle is my sincere question.
I am in and out of circles, communities, friendships, relationships but if I stay I am always loyal to my choices.
I truly hope that you can Say the same.
Yours @mammasitta
PS: Busy building a valuable network of “humans” who care because “I CARE”, as KE XU @onosocial CEO said and the simplicity of her words really touched me deeply.
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I don't know if I'm in the "right circles" (maybe I don't want to know), but I'm sure I'm at the right time. Sometimes I think I give more claps than I receive and I wonder if other people do more than me, or if what I do simply is not enough.
Regarding the user who opens the comments, when I see the hope and the value that you give to ONO, I feel the need to get up and applaud you. Because it's obvious that it's an altruistic initiative because in any case, there would be more money on Steemit, but possibly there will be more humanity on ONO and that's you, my dear, a trunk full of humanity.
Meanwhile, I will do my best to stay close to the circle that you radiate, because I'm sure that the learning that I will draw from you will be as much or more valuable than what I have learned from here backward.
You always leave me speechless and your appreciation of “me” means the world! I was born human and I will die even more human! That’s a huge achievement for anybody who went through a lot of painful struggles and disappointments of life. We must defeat evil energies! We must Help each other just a little bit.....one by one .....I hope you do understand my little autovoting gesture sending to you and family! We are growing “our” ⭕️ circle. I don’t know if it’s steemit Ono or whatever but I know you are one of thoseI beautiful humans who count to mine......the “ lovey dovey cocoon” hahahaa!
You can be totally sure that I understand the gesture and my gratitude extends without reservations. And if you allow me to go further, even the gesture surpasses me, because it's not only "doing something", but "doing it well" so that every word I can share, be real and leave my heart.
Hahahahaha you can count on me to make that circle ever more immense. Good people will always be more, although some want to overwhelm us.
This time I'll copy you: Yours, @lord-faustus <3
PS: Busy building a valuable network of “humans” who care because “I CARE”, as KE XU @onosocial CEO said and the simplicity of her words really touched me deeply.
@mammasitta well, you are doing that exact thing. :-) I am excited about ONO - thanks so much for sharing it!
Amazing!
You are actually the first person who noticed my little hint here and commented about @onosocial
This will be all our chance for equality and fairness!
I hope so!
Please read the white paper and articles to open your eyes to this vision.
It’s sound right to me!
😊 awesome!! I’m on that white paper! 👍🏾
I don't like that ono is for mobile devices only..
Check the roadmap!
The strong bond of friendship is not always a balanced equation; friendship is not always about giving and taking in equal shares. Instead, friendship is grounded in a feeling that you know exactly who will be there for you when you need something, no matter what or when.
We come to the world in addition to our will and we are not destined to choose parents, brothers and sisters, teachers, classmates, relatives. Perhaps at the end of the circle, which sent over. On human life in many respects begins to depend on him, from the choices he will make. Formation, education of the individual depends first and foremost from their parents, grandparents, and then from all the others. No wonder they say that the right circle of communication is the key to a successful life. The concept of successful life does not necessarily include material goods. Successful can be called a person who, summarizing his life, gets some satisfaction from the lived. The moral component here is of great importance. In the first years of life, it is the surrounding people who help to perceive the world, affect the worldview of the child. There is a well — known saying: "Tell me who your friend is and I will tell you who you are." In a sense, a person is a reflection of all those people with whom he constantly encounters. And if the usual circle of communication in which he rotates or lives in some way is mistaken, then the person will be partially or completely mistaken, even having a bright personality. How to expand the circle of communication, if necessary? There are multiple answers to this question. To become more sociable, it is not necessary to be afraid of people, it is necessary to be open, but not too trusting. Genuinely interested in the life of the interlocutor, to help at least with advice or deed - all this will help to acquire friends and acquaintances.
This quote jumped in my mind after reading your reply ⭕️
In young years, it is easy to fall under the influence of both good and bad companies. For example, now has developed many sub-cultures, appearance of representatives of which already speaks for itself. There are so-called metalheads, wearing long hair, leather, metal studs and so on, for rappers is characterized by a wide sliding pants, sneakers, a shapeless jacket huge size, the Goths wear black clothes, play the vampires. There are many communities, so business people, office workers are required to come to work in suits with ties, women should wear elegant high heel shoes and so on. And every society has its own morality, and from the point of view of members of this society, their morality is the correct, others are wrong. The circle of communion of some people professing Christian faith may differ from other Christian society as heaven and earth. Many sects spread all over the world, carry out their policy, lure people to themselves in different ways, offering them material goods and "the Kingdom of heaven". Many fall for the bait, become members of the sect, from which then it is much harder to get out than to enter it.
This song .....
My answer .....
Territory
The Blaze
We've waited for this day
We shared some tears of love now
Like a desert in the rain
When the sun of the day went down
There's nobody like my mom
There's no place like my home since I was born
When I was young
The flavor is so strong
I've missed it so long now
These people are my heroes
From distant sky
They light me up with flying clouds
This ever…
As an adult, in hard days, he remember guidance of the senior and life doesn't seem so cruel and unfair.
It all depends from what angle we choose to see life.....I agree with you...after all it might not be unfair but some people behaving more than unfair. I am still searching......
What you think about this?
@grisotti that’s for you as well :)
Your words are so so beautiful!
Self and collective developement = grow
Things would never be or appear the same to us if it was not shared with the people who are surrounding us.
We can identify to our family, to our friends, our neigbhoors, those who have the same culture or nationality, what is always making me grow is to relate with the others.
There are place to emancipate, we need to go somewhere else to learn. It is not about the education system you'll find. It is about the mix of cultures you'll meet.
Find your surrounding and/or be accessible to let them find you. Yes, you'll need to be careful, you'll need to stay surrounded, from a group to another, through the unknown, like for the fear and the mirror, sometimes, we need a friend if not a bluefairy to make the jump to the other side.
https://steemit.com/steemit-austria/@jnmarteau/how-to-be-the-most-lucky-person-of-the-world-photography-technology-vienna
A lot of love <3
I know that you found yours :)
You find your own beautiful mirrors!
Where can I find blue fairies? hahaha
That is a super sensitive question for me as it also is complex for me. Thank you @mammasitta! I guess some circles we are born into, we dont have a choice for the beginning. Eventualy we grow into circles that we partly chose, mostly dont chose and then is the process of emancipating in order to actually go find a circle we realy chose, or we stay in the one that was chosen for us. But if the process of emancipation is too hard, the circle we end up in, is not the one we actually wanted, but the one which feeds our emancipative advancement. I guess that would mean after we got free from the circles we didnt chose, after we had a more or less intensive process of emancipation, only then I guess we are able to say think about real circles. But then again, our past and early relationship patterns pritty strongly influence the way we search for circles. Which makes me think that maybe, we are in a very certain circle all our lives. And finaly, i guess global citizenship would mean, carrying because of it. That would be interessting to dive into..
I just don’t feel comfortable in the comfortzone! Never did!
There is one quote #icare for my circle I choose but I can’t always see that my circle cares for me enough, nor for the whole human kind.
Your words inspire me to think that your comfort zone is of different nature? You are writing that you dont feel comfortable in the comfort zone, than it is maybe not your comfortzone. So, what I understand is that you are saying that there might be a community comfort zone, something like a normative set of values defining that zone. But then again, what you are writing feels like something very personal, something very precious. What it touches on my side is this feeling I have had for a while, that makes me question what circle I am in and how this circle functions. And I sometimes start believing, that maybe I ended up in the wrong circle, but not because the circle is bad, but because it feels like I am speaking a different language, as if I was not realy compatible. But it is a search to find out, if it is the nature of humans or a specific trait of mine, which makes me feel this way. So if you say you feel that you are not allways sure that your circle cares the way you care it means, that there is a certain exchange. And that exchange is the precious thing for me. How do circles show apreciation, caring, love for each other? How is it translated to one self. And here is one thing that I came across for my self and it actually creates fantastic thoughts and feelings. As I work a lot with children, I have been experimenting with comparing one self with animals. I am a whale (of course not in the steem world), but my nature is like a whale, I am big, slow, I love water. And when ever I reflect on my interaction with my circles I tell everyone, hey, you know, I am a water animal and swimm very slow. This might sound weired, but it is sooo relieving when I meet people who also recognize that and say, ok, cool, lets go and swimm a little while. And that is realy the fun part about working in a kindergarten, children total understand that language, that fantasy, that way of experimenting with circles. Dear @mammasitta, thank you for that inspiration!
I am truly impressed with your replies!!! I think I cannot reply to every single of your incredible thoughts but I read them carefully...slow ....even though my mind is like the new @EOS blockchain, I like so much. hahaha....I am on my phone and its a bit hard. so toll to meet you !!!!
I mean when I am too long in any comfort zone, I start feeling very edgy because I always need challenges and new motivations. I sat in my own Bali island cocoon for a very long time and thought I was comfortable but I also knew that I had to break out not to stand still. Life is like a river and when the flow is broken we need to find another path to keep going.
I concur. Your circle of friends should be with people who makes you feel good, always have your back, roots for you as you climb the ladder for success. Equally.... you offer the same to your friends.
Let go of people that do not have your best interest at heart. Even if it's your blood. Just let go....
Happiness is already written as a code in our DNA!
How come we as humans are not capable to make sure our “circle” reach that maximum of joy in our every day life. I wonder ....
I think it all as to do with conditioning...nurturing...playground...media. However, as adults, I believe it's up to us to rediscover our true nature.
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Danke für diese schönen Gedanken. Ja, man sollte sich immer wieder im Leben fragen, wofür man etwas tut und ob man damit wirklich glücklich ist. Liebe Grüsse aus Sanur
Wow wow wow ! Sanur! How do I miss this island right now :)
Yes, Sanur is great! Soon you will be here again :-).
I try to find my circle every day, minute and second! Not always easy!
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When you close the cirle chain; Im always in the good circle. 😉😊👌
I am happy for you! I broke many ...too many!
Always do what feels good, breking chains will make people stronger.
What a uses of circle very lovely and exclusively
I am not sure if I did understand what you mean