What My Father Didn't Tell Me About Life
Speech and the Advantages of Silence
• Your words are an expression of what is going on by yourself, and if we can control our tongue and control what comes out of it and close it if we doubt the results it may bring, we will have done a lot
• The fewer and focused your words, the more you make people fear you.
• The word that comes out of your mouth you can't put back and the word that you release you can't put back in
• Imam Ali bin Abi Talib, may God be pleased with him, said: "Speak, you know, one is hidden under his tongue, and when he speaks, he appears."
There are times when silence is as ideal a choice as anger
Because the percentage of one's slippage when angry is great, and the most dangerous is that our words at the time are counted against us and may be an argument against us and condemn us, so the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) advises us not to get angry, so he says (Do not get angry and you will have paradise) and the Holy Qur 'an glorifies the angry people because the suppression of anger is very difficult
• When negotiating, the longer we remain silent, the sooner the other moves his lips and teeth, revealing to you more clearly his intentions and what he wants.
• People may doubt what you say, but they will believe what you do. Louis Case
• It is better to listen to what is said to you, reflect on every advice, criticism or guidance, think about it well, your mind works in you, and if you are determined, no one's words discourage you and do not discourage you.
Life and Revenge
• Get what you want from life with strength and determination, says Winston Churchill - Prime Minister of Britain in World War II – each of us has a day and some days are longer than others , and when we get up to avoid the pain of defeats we must realize that the days are coming and that there is plenty of time to do what needs to be done, and that calm thinking, not rushing, rushing and nervousness is the best option
• Life is a field of battles, it is not excluded that you find yourself fighting and struggling for a value, principle, goal, ambition or goal, and you may be defeated and perhaps killed by someone with their despicable methods, so what should you do? Mr. Abdul Wahab Mutawa, may God have mercy on him, answers you: "Thebest way to take revenge on those who abuse you is not to be like them, avoid behaving the same as their sick behaviors, and refrain from responding to them to increase their sense of humility and insignificance and deviation of their morals.
• Learn to take revenge for your mistakes and missteps by being better, learn to take revenge on those who harmed them by not being like them, but rather make your good behavior a mirror that clearly shows its badness and ugliness
Life and Choice
• The most difficult moments when starting a new project are the starting moments
• The pleasure of making a mistake in your free choice is greater than the happiness of being right in what has been chosen for you!
• Do not live someone else's dreams and do not allow anyone to choose your path, or to dictate to you what to do, so that your life is based on what you decide and want
,Success,Failure
• Success is a ladder that you cannot climb with your hands in your pocket . Success takes effort
• Success is not free and the tax of success must be paid in advance, and as much as you are tired, hard and patient, the price and reward will be
• The lights of success will not be dazzling if they are not preceded by the darkness of failure
• Enjoy failure by learning from it,and make sure to reflect on your failures to see among its darkness a point of light that may illuminate your whole life
• Failure is of two kinds, a kind that comes from thinking without acting and a kind that comes from acting without thinking
Rule (18-40-60)
This rule simply tells you something very important, which is that at the age of eighteen you are very interested in what people think of you, pay attention to what they say about you, and worry about what they feel about you, and when you reach the age of forty you become completely uninterested in what people say about you and do not care about their opinions about you, and do not worry about their praise or criticism, while at the age of sixty you realize that no one in life was interested in you to the degree that you thought all your life.