My girlfriend Jilted me on the day I proposed and it wasn't her intention.

My girlfriend Jilted me on the day I proposed and it wasn't her intention.

Although some people will do some crazy things in life that we will never understand, I have come to understand that there's no such thing as a bad intention. An individual will always make the best choice they can, according to the information they have available to them at the time.

Just like my ex-girlfriend (let's say Chioma) was told that most young boys have a very bad temperament and are immature that's why their marriages end in few months because of reconcilable issues.

Chioma broke up with me immediately I proposed to her last November. She looked me in the eyes and said, 'I'm sorry, I can't marry you because you are too young to take care of me.

The next news I heard was that she wedded a 52 year old widower. When I asked her sister if the marriage was contracted or what she told me that Chioma wholely accepted and got pregnant with the man.

You see, Chioma never had bad intention for me but the information At her disposal was controlling her because she held unto it hook, line and sinker without questioning or inquiry.

You should understand that all our actions have at least one goal – to accomplish something that we value and that will benefit us. An individual is not their behaviour. When a person becomes aware that there's a better choice of behaviour that will also achieve their positive intention, they'll take it.

As a life coach, It's crucial that my number one goal is to protect the trust in the relationship with our clients and in order to do this I must not jump to conclusions about what I think their intentions are. We must instead take time to understand what their intentions actually are.

Now! Let me ask you,

Do you know the intention why your partner is acting weird.?

Love, Peace and Sunshine

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