Balancing everything is chaos.
Chaos is a way of life but not everyone can do it.
maybe I will invite people for a picnic because that is much more preferred than them inviting me.
It is chaos if accepting an invite to a picnic, more controlled when inviting others to your picnic. And people organizing picnics are just plain lazy. My kind of people. :)
I don't mind if a party gets out of hand. I am usually the reason it might, and also I tend to just lose the party. I think I prefer organic, oh my you are also drinking like a fish, me too then we all drink like a fish.