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RE: Is hypogamy + state + anarchy-interest the reason for that I am single at the age of 38?
A less than steady income is definitely a thing, especially in your age group. Women in your age group have already experienced the exciting bad boys in their 20s, gotten burnt, and are looking for providers now in their 30s. So, if you don't have a steady income, you are not very desirable.
Maybe you could try changing up your look, too, I don't know. I recently re-grew my hair, and I've noticed a sharp increase in women's interest in me.
In today's dating market, it's extremely important to stand out somehow. So, try something new.
Also, if you don't already do it, go to the gym and start working out. Chicks like muscles.
I appreciate your comment, I think making too woman pregnent, and with my age, I have alot of experience in woman in generel. I was not looking for specific advice on how to improve myself, the post was more meant as of an philosophical in-kick to an debate on the topic.
To make an response to your comment, I will say: That I think that my dating possibilities in the "main stream dating arena" is more or less over! Due to my age, history and personal interests. I think I have a small chance to find a woman that are interested in the same topics (Anarchy, bitcoins or similiar) at one point (these woman are rare in my age group, but I find more young woman might have a little interest in these topics).
Does that make sense?
Sure I know that woman like men that are fit and all that...
So you only want to date women that are into the exact same things you are? That sounds boring...
No not at all, they just need to atleast understand my view on the world, as Anarchy vs statism is pretty different, and I dont think a relationship would work if the woman is statist and the man anarcist! Thats all I was trying to say.
The mainstream arena never worked for me and I'm only 26, lol. Try not to analyze the situation too much. Falling in love isn't a logical process and I don't think you can make it happen through thought and analysis.