Being a man must be firm, if it is ready to marry immediately, and if it is not ready then leave it immediately
Men must know and realize that true love needs capital, not just rag. Because love is not as cheap as saying "i love you", there are intentions and responsibilities that must be taken into account.
So, being a man must be a lot of capital, not a lot of money. Do you think love is only sweet words? Not!
Love needs the name of the effort to make it halal, then what capital should be prepared? That is responsibility, readiness to have, stability for one, and sincerity to accept everything that is in him sincerely.
You also have to understand, that in fact it is a happy woman who wants to be invited to be serious about living together that is not as cheap as the happiness of the chillies.
Where, if only the sweet chillies are enough, the important thing is to be happy and not lonely. But women who want to be wives, then you must prepare everything with full thought.
Remember, don't bro ... if it's rag, then the brothers who sell on the market or on the edge of the road can, so the merchandise sells.
Well, what do you want to sell to women who want to be taken seriously? Love? No, the real love relationship is not that easy, because you have to hold a responsibility to start it all.
So Being a man must be firm, if it is ready to marry immediately, and if it is not ready then leave it immediately.
Because a good woman must understand the wise decision that you choose, eventually split up but at least he is ready to wait until you are truly ready to make it halal.
Do not get between ready and not ready the same, because not a few men today love gray. Why is it gray, because there is no responsibility between ready and not.
All he knows is happy, caring and loyal. But to make it halal is still a sequence in his mind. In fact, the relationship without a clear commitment is very heavy, especially before God later.
Because true love is not enough just with love, a promise or sweet adultery, because love is not as cheap as the word "I am to you" alone, but the certainty to have in the lawful way that will affect God's blessings.
In essence, if you are not ready to establish serious love in marriage, then you have to prepare a lot of capital first, because getting married requires capital both physically and mentally, and not enough to just rag.
Agreed, commitment takes years to build up. Here is an upvote.
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