Implied conditions behind Love

You must support my physical and mental survival right in the world.

You will help me where it is possible or at least you must not try to do harm to me.

You will be happy when I am happy, you will be sorry when I am sorry (if you are in a normal situation).

If you know a person or situation that is harmful for me you must quickly inform me.

We already have or jointly find out at least one common goal to achieve.

When I am beside you I should feel more safety and happiness (if situation is not abnormal).

You must have necessity for me.

You will trust me that I will not intentionally do harm to you.

You will always try to stay in touch with me. You will try to avoid doing something that can take you away from me.

You must not tell against me to be benefited.

Before holding or spreading a negative notion about me you must fast discuss with me.

You must not fear me.

Before starting discussion with me you must not show me that you already have taken disrespectful decision about me.

You must not accept a love that is given to you for supporting depriving me from my right of receiving love, honor, money etc fully or partially or to disrespect me.

You must not show hatred, disrespect or criticize me in absence of me.

If your ability increases then your responsibility for me will increase (or my situation should be improved) and when you lose ability your responsibility will be same way decreased.

You must not make a pressure to do something beyond my abilities.

You will be fit for discussion. If somehow you go much angry we must have a middleman to start a discussion.

You must not hide your opinion when discussion takes place.

You must not start a discussion to legitimate your work already done that goes against love rule.

Don’t show more importance (compare to me) to a person who I introduced with you (except that he is now your relative but I am not).

Don’t make experiment upon me. For experiment purpose, don’t expect something form me which you really do not want. Don’t expect something lightly whereas you expect it deeply. When I will be in love with you I will have almost no doubt about you. So when you making experiment this time you actually preparing me against you beyond my consciousness.

We must not suffer by ego. Where your leading is more beneficial for us I will follow you but when it is not beneficial or harmful for us I will lead you or we will jointly find a leader.

You can gather information about me by making discussion with me, not by making experiment or discussion with my relatives or close friends (until I ask you do so).

The person or organization against whom/which I already expressed my opinion, considering that person/organization right and complete, you must not take a decision against me. You must fast remove our difference of opinions about that person/ organization.

If you have expected an explanation from me about a matter but if I did not make the same voluntarily, don’t think that
a) I know that you are seeking an explanation.
b) An environment is ready for me to make explanation.
c) I am able to create a suitable environment for making an explanation.
d) As I have benefit for not making explanation, so I do not want to make explanation.
e) If you make an explanation expressing environment I will be angry.

The person I know earlier than you and should show same or more love to him (compared to you) but I am not showing, in this case you must discuss with me before showing more love to that person.

Don’t play a role like an expert about me to other person. Don’t express your opinions, assumptions as my actual opinions, desires etc.

Don’t think beforehand that the people who I apparently have good relationship all are my well-wishers and words/opinions expressed to them are my real words/ opinions. If you find any contradiction in my opinions you have right to ask me personally but you do not have a right to misjudge me.

Don’t always think that I am intelligent everywhere. It might also happen that I love/ respect a wrong person. You have no to right to believe a person’s negative opinion so thinking that I love or respect him.

When you find a contradiction between my words and actions, don’t think that my actions are actual and my words are untrue. You mst ask me about this to explain you. An action could be explained from different angle. This is the true angle that matches with all my earlier words and actions.

When you find that I am doing crime or wrong against a person/ organization don’t think beforehand that I am simply doing crime, not taking revenge or I am not making mistakes. You should know that in the world there are a lot of crimes that are not precisely or at all described by law and I can be a victim of this kind of any crime happened against me earlier or crime could be then identified but I was unable to take legal actions.

You must not violet a decision that we took jointly.

When you discontinue a system we were following, it is you who will voluntarily make explanation and it is not me who will ask you.

Don’t do harm to people. If you still do this so at least try not to force me participate with you and quit this actions as soon as possible. You should know that this kind of actions can once damage our mutual trust.

The deep our relationship, breaking this should also comparatively take time, negotiations, some other actions or will require a favorable environment.

You will try to keep your promise given to me and if for any reason you cannot upkeep your words you must say sorry as soon as possible.

If you leave our common meeting place for long time, it is you who will communicate with me first and most of the times.

You must not make your life risky.

You mast not do harm to me to be benefited from a place/issue, where you have normally no right to be benefited (for example you got benefited as I introduced you there or as I involved myself there.)

If you show me any reason for loving me, the long time this reason is present you must not change or withdraw the reason without satisfactory explanation.

You must not be a threat for a person who I love and who is related to my safety and security.

If in your life my contribution is grater than someone, you must not show more respect or importance to that person.

You must not show more importance to a person or take decision about me getting advice from him who is comparatively new or less close with you in relationship.

Don’t make a plan to follow or ask me do something that indicates that I will not run as a normal person (for example I will not study, I will not merry, I will not parent a child, I will not leave in a house, I will not educate my child etc).

You must tell me your past antisocial activities or disrespectful position voluntarily.( you may avoid telling if you ware forced to do the same by someone else or by an unavoidable or extremely helpless situation).

If your social respect is higher than me then I will try to adjust my social respect with your one, on the other hand if my social respect is higher then your one then you must try to make an adjustment with my one.

If you are richer and more powerful than me, you will try to use your money and power to keep me with you or to keep relationship with me (when our relationship goes in danger for your continuous progress or my inability to adjust with you).

You will truly express me your socioeconomic condition or abilities so that I can avoid expecting something beyond your abilities. It will also help me making a plan (or to find the right way) for you to fulfill your needs using your abilities.

You must not have a loving relationship with my enemies.

When you express your grief that time I feel sorrow. The long the reason of you grief stays I will not get rid of this sorrow. If you are unable to do something or if you have o plan of your own to get rid of your sorrow then I have all rights to make a plan using our (or my) abilities to help you. I expect you to assist me in this plan and will not seriously blame me for developing worse situation as a result of this plan.

If you ware in my position what you will prefer for you, you must prefer the same for me unless I prefer differently.

You must not be a bar to get justice for me.

You must not impose upon me any condition not to get any love that I have right to get.

You must not evaluate a person superior to me who I think of my same rank or lower.

You must not be jealous of me.

If any of my family members, relatives or friends do harm to you, you must not blame or torture me for his actions except that he was introduced to you by me (without being asked by you or our organization)

Don’t create hatred (in me) up to an extent against a person who you hate but less then that extent.

You must not compare me with anybody.

Agreeing with my physical structure the importance/necessity you showed me, you must continue it until I lose the structure for my negligence.

If you don’t like to love me leave me by making a declaration.