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in #love7 years ago

Hey steemians..I am writing this coz i need ur precious advice.
I am in love with this girl since 2011. It all started with a prank call which my best friend made to her without knowing her at all. It was fun in those days as we used to play prank on most weekends when we were boozing together. In all these six years we had our ups n downs and had several fights and she broke up wimme many times.. But she came back to me until this time and its been two months now. Its not that I dud not try. In fact i tried a lot this time more than earlier but i believe she has made up her mind this time. I have a regular software job which i have to do to run myself . But my passion is trading- equities,derivatives,commodities,forex n now this new thing crypto-currency. I am not rich. I win , I lose. When i win i party, when i lose i still party coz i believe that we have this one life and we cant mourn over petty grief. But i am sad now for a longer period this time. I am not being able to party/ booze or enjoy life. Now let me tell you why she left me this time. She wants me to give up trading and focus on my career in software coz i have no savings as when i win i spend d money travelling and buying things for her n myself and when i lose , i lose.

Do i quit trading coz she will not take any other shit this time. Or do i continue to chase my dream, my passion and leave it upto the Almighty.

Thanks

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Chase your dream. If she is more concerned with your wallet than your heart and passion, then you should be more concerned with your heart and passion than with her "plans for you" because that is not a good way to live the rest of your life, and you know in your heart that is true, or you never would have asked us! Am I right?

I'm trying to locate a short video I saw a few weeks back, it speaks to this exact issue but i cannot locate it yet. When I do, I'll bring it back and show it to you. It may help you open your eyes to your decision.

thanks...i will b lookin forward 2 dat vdeo...

I hope I can find it. It is like exactly perfect for your question. And it's from India, so I think it may be something you should see. I have searched and searched, but i saw it on facebook, so I put up a message over there for whoever posted it to let me see it again. I hope that they see my request and get back to me soon!