HOW I MADE MY HUSBAND TO STOP CHEATING
HOW TO MAKE YOUR MAN STOP CHEATING
ladies mostly think it is in a man's nature to cheat on his woman, but if you ask me i will clearly put it to you that cheating is an individual thing and every man has his reasons for cheating on his woman, African men cheat for basically four(4) reasons:
ADVENTURE AND FUN
60% of our modern men do cheat in their quest for some new spice and brand in the world of sex and romance, A man whose wife lacks bedroom creativity is likely to have desire for something new outside his home, bedroom creativity is basically what every woman needs to keep his man, create a new style of kissing, romance, sex , and more importantly your sex environment, sex is not only meant for your bedroom alone and there is no law which says sex should be done only at night, so common babe, dress sexily and try upgrading your sexy moves with the new trend.
It is more fun if a woman can carefully trick his man to a neutral environment outside his home, make him totally clueless of his expectations, and then carefully get him aroused, make it look as if he is in charge even when you clearly can see how clueless he his, don't forget that some sexy sounds or moaning a woman makes turns on a man automatically, then give it to him like some college kid will and see the outcome of it.
FEAR OF HEARTBREAK AND LONELINESS
20% of young men who cheat on their ladies actually do this out of fear of future disappointment, heartbreak and fear of being lonely. this is applicable to mostly young men who are still striving to gain financial strength or balance enough to get married and mostly within the ages of 25 to 35. such men maybe willing to love and stick to only one lady but for the fear of heart break they choose to keep multiple partners and sex mates.
10% out of the above 20% maybe financially strong but they are in the categories of men who love to get what they want anytime they need it, lacks patience when it comes to women and hates being turned down whenever they demand for sex. this category of men will rather keep other partners who will serve as relevant options whenever their wife or fiancee disappoints.
The solution to such men isn't that hard to figure out , first of all give him this sense of security and comfort, no matter how broke he is, all a man wants from you is your commitment, care and love which no other lady out there can possible give to a broke ass like him, tell him how dedicated you are towards spending the rest of your life with him, let him feel you also believe in his dreams. the similarity between both categories of men is that they both want much of your attention and please don't deny them of sex.
FINANCIAL REASON
this is not only applicable to playboys who run after older ladies to warm their bed and get money from them but also married men who look out for more influential ladies within their field of work in other to gain favor from them, this may include promotion, contract,cash or connections. this category of men do truly love their spouse but to them cheating at this point is another means of gathering more for his true love.
It is easier for one to know how to handle such men, first, you need to know your position in your man's heart , make him believe he doesn't really need to go to the extreme before he can make you happy, share what you have with him and make him see how committed you are towards making him financially strong as he wish.
REJECTION AND FRUSTRATION
cheating for some men may be as a result of rejection, lack of adequate care and attention by his wife, some women becomes to nonchalant towards their men and likewise giving him total sense of rejection while some other men gets addicted to drinking and womanizing as a result of frustration.
