Stop Asking For Permission From Women. I need a kiss, Just Do It

in #love7 years ago

Ask any woman and she will tell you that in her eyes, part of being a man is knowing how and when to lead a woman. And when the guy doesn't know how to do that, its a big turn off to us ladies.


Leading is important in many aspects of your interaction with women, and one major such aspect is... not asking permission for certain things.

For instance, saying "can i kiss you?" before going for that kiss is a TERRIBLE thing to do. First of all, It ruins the anticipation and romantic tension.

Second, It communicate to a woman that you are a total wimp and don't have the balls to kiss her if you see that the moment is right. And lastly, It puts a woman in an uncomfortable position. What is she supposed to say- Yes, go ahead"- How stupid would she feel if she does that?


I remember I heard a woman laugh at her date when she was telling me how this guy asked her if he cold hold her had when they were sitting in a movie theater. She ended telling me that story with a big eewwww."


So, don't do that! None of that "can I hold your hand? "can I take you to a restaurant?" "Is it okay if we go for a walk?" crap!


Instead, If you see that moment is right for a kiss, stop talking (shouting up is a wonderful thing sometimes), Look in her eyes, and go for it gracefully and confidently.


Instead of asking to hold her hand, just pick her palm with your hand gently and hold it.

Instead of asking her if she would like to go to a certain place, say, Hi baby, Get ready we are going to a new place, Or put some comfortable shoes we are gong for a walk.

Don't ask a woman: Can i get your number? you don't need permission! 

Just ask: What is your name?


I am sure you understand what i mean.

Contrary ti what some might think, this is not being controlling.

You are not telling her how to live her life or what to do. You are being a man, an attractive man, who takes care of things and show his confidence in simple yet very effective ways. 

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LOL.... I messed up I guess but thanks for sharing this post.