WHEN IS LOVE CONSIDERED LOVE AND NOT INFATUATION?

in #love6 years ago

hello fellow steemians, you all must have fallen in love till date!
AM I RIGHT, GUYS?
Love is indeed a great feeling to experience, but when can we understand that the love we are looking for is either the true love or just a physical infatuation.
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love and infatuation are the most intense emotions that one feels for the another. These feelings are generally confused by each other in the duration of their relationship.

GETTING GRIP ON INFATUATION, TO KNOW WHAT IS IT ACTUALLY?
Infatuation also reffered to as "lust" is the state of just being carried away by outer appearance, physically attracted.
you start to think about that person as an object rather than feeling for him or her. there is lack of commitment, and more you think to achieve something from the person.
It gives you daydreams, you keep on thinking all day long and feel sexually attracted to the person.
unresolved infatuation will lead to anger, fear, lack of interest, frustrations.

NOW THE FAVOURITE PART OF GETTING INTO THE DEPTH OF TRUE LOVE
Love is a feeling of intense affection for a person and ultimate care towards that relationship. true love is unconditional indeed. there is prompt willingness to support the person and stand by him or her in every situation no matter what!?
You will try to be in good as well as in bad if you are deeply into someone, then you can proudly state that you are in true love. Many a time, person whom you love does not feel the same for you, can be the case! A true lover accepts a person as s/he is and never puts conditions on him/her and also accept whatever might be the outcome of that relationship.

In infatuation, so called 'love' between both of them, will then turn into hatred, revenge, lack of interest.

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In short, You can summarize the above points and note the difference.

∆ Love is for lifelong whereas infatuation is temporary and short-lasted.

∆ Love accepts the whole person with imperfection and all. infatuation on the other hand doesn't seem to like bad side in the person.
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this is merely as per my point of view to summarize what i feel about love, and how hard is to differentiate what's true love actually?!
Will be looking forward to know your views, what you think? so please drop a comment and share your views with our community!

This is yours @drenthusiast signing off! see you soon in next blog!
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thats was deep brother ... So Are you in love ? Ignore if i went personal ...

and Just follow to get free votes for your future posts. Already voted this :)

Good Day Brother ... :)

yes i am in love sir, and was also gone through number of infatuations so can sense thing better now, and am planning to post about my current love life..its gonna be interesting!
sir i have seen your post they are the best, please keep supporting me..i will always admire you!
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@drenthusiast .... all the very best my boy ...but remember it should always be unconditional and no expectations ... atleast thats what i have learnt from my past ...

thanks @kenden means alott to me! thanks for appreciation!

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