Would You Lower Your Standards for the Sake of Love?

Every alpha woman’s dream is to get herself a man who is very ideal in her eyes based on her beliefs, principles, or personal preferences. That man must be tall, physically fit, fair-skinned, and free from body arts. He must also have perfectly-shaped face, tantalizing eyes, and kissable lips. More than that, he needs to have a good educational background and a stable white-collar job which will make him capable of raising a family. Traits like being loving, responsible, family-oriented, respectful, understanding, caring, forgiving, honest, sincere, and fashionable are also a big plus. Even not into hard drinks or being just an occasional drinker and a non-smoker are very much wanted.

Those are only few characteristics of an ideal man that an alpha woman is longing for. In her mind, she should wait for that kind of man to come and get her. She won’t even just easily commit into a relationship if the man isn’t able to meet all of her standards. Some people would say that having high standards in love is not a problem at all because one day, that man will rise above all else and meet the standards that you set. That means she will just wait and wait and wait until the most awaited day comes. But the question is what if he won’t come into your life as you wish he would? What if your ideal man doesn’t exist in reality? What if it takes him too long to find you? What if you found him but he’s not meant for you? What if he’s just around the corner longing for you but ended up hopeless because he knew in the first place that he couldn’t meet all of your standards and that he’s out of your league? What if you’ll grow old not meeting the man in your dreams? Have you ever thought of that?

Try contemplating. Try reflecting. Open your mind. Listen to your heart. Understand. Weigh things out. Is meeting all of your standards really important? To you, what is really love? Is it solely meeting a guy whom you can brag about because he got everything you want? Is it love? If it is, then that’s your choice. If it’s not, then would you lower your standards for the sake of love?

Decide.