CONDITIONAL LOVE

THE NEED TO BE LOVE

The second major fear that holds us back, undermines our confidence, and its expression our desire for a happy life is the fear of rejection and its expression, criticism. The is emotions is learned in early childhood as the result of our parents expressing disapproval of us whenever we do something they don't like, or don't do something that they expect. As a result of our displeasing them , they become an angry and withdraw the love and approval we need so much as children. The fear of being unloved and alone is so traumatic for a child that she soon conforms her behavior to do whatever she thinks her parents will approve of. she lose her spontaneity and uniqueness she begins to think, 'i have to do whatever mommy and Daddy want me to, or they won't love me and i'll be all alone!"

CONDITIONAL LOVE

THE WAY YOU SEE YOURSELF

HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT YOURSELF

The third part of your self concept is your self esteem . this is the emotional component of your personality, and it's the most important factor in determining how you think, feel, and behave. Your level of self esteem largely determines much of what happens to you in lif.