MISTAKES MEN AND WOMEN SHOULD AVOID WHEN KISSING

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Sometimes, people are wondering  why  Men leave Women or Vice verse after that first and important step "The Kiss". let's know first What An Osculation is. Here is the following:

As a Verb:

Touch with the Lipsas a of Love, sexual desire, reverence or greeting.

As a Noun:

A touch with the Lips in kissing.

Synonims:

Verb. Osculate, Buss, Lip.

Noun: Osculation, Peck, Buss.

   A kiss can speak a thousand words. It's exciting to lock lips with your crush, but there are plenty of mistakes people can make while kissing. Like everything, it's a learning experience, so don't be afraid of messing up once or twice. You might have been going through life leaving bad kisses along the way.  Most people are guilty of doing at least one of the things on this list. If you're the exception, you should still beware of these mistakes people can make while kissing. 

 "TOO MUCH TONGUE"

The act of Kissing  can be magical, but the one thing that is bound to break the magic is the feeling of the jamming of a squishy, wet and playful tongue being the first thing hitting your lips till it gets  down each other's throats.  You don't have to be aggressive in order to show how much you're enjoying the make-out session, a little mystery is nice but you sometimes or maybe always want your partner to know you’ve actually got a tongue and know how to work it.  One of the biggest mistakes people can make while kissing is using their tongue as their only tool. You can show your affection in other ways. It's fine to french, but don't go overboard in your first Date.  

Always lead with your lips at the start of a kiss. Once you get a rhythm, you can incorporate your tongue, but definitely hold off until the time is right. 

"DO NOT BECOME A HUMAN FAUCET"


 While everyone produces a different amount of saliva, you can control the amount that ends up on your kissing partner's face. Try not to push too much saliva out of your mouth while kissing and be careful with how wide the motions of your mouth are. If you're getting their chin wet, you've probably gone too far. No one should need a towel for their face after a make-out session.  

"ALL DRIED UP"


 The best kisses involve lips that are soft and smooth. You don't want flakiness to ruin the moment. Chapstick is of the utmost importance when you're in a relationship. You want him to want to kiss you. To get kissable lips, you need to make them look more attractive by keeping them free of dead skin, rough spots, and dryness. The best way to make your lips more appealing is to follow a regular regimen of exfoliating and moisturizing your lips. It won’t take you much time, and your lips will be soft and kissable. You can also do other things to draw attention to your lips, such as keeping your breath fresh, touching your lips, or positioning them in a sexy way. 

"TOO HANDSY"

 It's difficult to focus on his kiss when his hands are distracting you. If you're not ready for him to go to a certain length, you have to tell him. A kiss can go from sweet to sour with a few unwanted touches. Make sure that you're both on the same page. If he doesn't know how far you're willing to go, he's going to test it for himself. It's better for you two to talk it out first. 

"NOT HANDSY ENOUGH"

 Your mouths aren't the only important part of kissing. If his hands are at his sides the entire night, you'll wonder how much he likes you. He can push back a piece of your hair, grasp your waist, or hold you close. You can place your hands on his chest, run your hands through his hair, or place them on the back of his neck. There are plenty of ways to feel more connected.

"CARRIED AWAY WITH THE TEETH"

 I know vampires are in right now, but that doesn’t mean you have to apply that to the world of kissing. A little biting of the lip is fine here and there, but you don’t want to be chowing down on your date.

"DO NOT DRIFT OFF TO SLEEP"

 Men, on the whole, may see kissing as a stop on the road to sex, whereas many women concentrate on the act of kissing itself, according to a study in the journal of Evolutionary Psychology. No matter how you see a kiss, if you're thinking about what's coming next or what you're going to make for dinner that night, you're not going to perform your best.Don't go through the motions. If you care about the person, kissing can be an important way to connect with them physically. 

"NO AIR"

 Forgetting to breathe is never a good thing. You have to know your limits. When it's time for you to come up for air, don't be afraid to do so. Trust me, your mate will understand that you need to breathe. It's better to pause for a moment than to lose consciousness.

"HAVING BAD BREATH"

  Buy gum or invest in breath mints. You want to make sure that you're smelling icy fresh before you make your mate come closer. You should also watch what you eat if you know you're about to head over to your couple's house. You don't want to load up on garlic when kissing is in the cards. 

"WIDE OPEN EYES"

 They say the eyes are the windows to a person’s soul.  But nobody wants to peek through that window that closely. Sure, maybe some people like a little eye action. But when you’re the only one looking, you’re the only one looking like a crazy person. Therefore, You know when you can feel someone staring at you even if you can't see them? That's what it will feel like to your partner if you don't shut your eyes while you kiss them. 

 Keeping your eyes closed will free you up from distractions and deepen your kiss. Don't worry, the TV will still be there when you're done. 

"DO NOT ALWAYS FOCUS ON THE LIPS"

 A peck is always nice, but if you're only kissing on the lips, you're doing it wrong. The book "The Science of Kissing" showed that women love to be kissed on the neck, but even if you're kissing another gender, it doesn't hurt to switch it up. Kiss their neck, ears, cheek, shoulder — you name it. This shows that you have range and will keep them guessing, so don't limit yourself.

Hey man, follow these steps, you will succeed with your crush:

To sum up with this Blog, I would like to tell that Kissing is a especial moment when someone show the other one some sort of affection, the most import which is LOVE.  Notwithstanding the crush for someone, This magic moment could not be spoiled  whether we all experienced a bad kiss. Well,  if you do not mind you can share here some horrible kisses undergone before. See you on my next post. I hope that You really enjoyed it.

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How to do kiss! i read it totally and really interesting it was to read waOO . thanks

Thanks for your comment, Yeah most of us think we are such as good kissers, it is not totally true though. Kissing is an art which can be an innate or improved skill throughout our love life.

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Good post @jesusrosal2609, you are right about the fact that kissing is an art, just like any physical task really. You gotta practice .

Yeah, my friend, you just have the feeling of doing with the correct person with all your heart. And of course, enjoy it a lot. Let's support one another in our posts.