True Security by Being the Best Lover You can Be <3

Dear lazy #men who dominate women for their sexual needs and #ego insecurities, who rely on the monogamous nature of a woman's soul to remain an immature child, who ask her to sacrifice her bliss to sustain your #insecurity, recognize that in that context #heaven within relations is impossible and even the #sex can never be that great (her ecstasy and desire for you is what creates the miracle). Is a man secure enough to let a woman lower her filters and innocently experience the magic of life, even when it comes through innocent nonphysical play with another man? How many women have feared a burst of unexpected playful #intimacy with another and felt guilty that she does not have that with her "partner"? #truelove shatters the ego so that #spirit is #reborn. How many premature commitments out of lack of self knowledge and personal experience keep people and couples in reactionary #hell? How many relationships tiptoe around protecting each others wounds and denying life to preserve insecurity? All this to say, fellow #brothers and #sisters get secure in your own non-negligent holistic lover and then you will never be threatened by another's. When you take your growth seriously you will never be threatened by anothers and will not give cause for a #woman s unmet needs to be met by another #man, thats true relationship security <3 Recognize your limitations, work on them and dont hate others for their commitment to personal growth. This message can also be flipped for lazy immature women LOL!