What is most important between Money and love in marriage?

in #life6 years ago

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Money and love are equally important and  essential in marriage.  While love is the bedrock and the foundation of the marriage,  the very fabric the marriage is woven from,  money acts as the grease that sustains the love.  Don't  get me wrong,  i am not saying money is what makes love stand but what i am saying money is equally essential as love in marriage in order to make the marriage sweeter and blissful. 

Permit me an analogy,  let's  assume love is the engine that makes the marriage work and move,  just like the engine of a car is not self sufficient  to sustain the car in motion and all,  love itself can't  sustain the marriage  because it  needs fuel.  Fuel in this sense is money.  Love isn't materialistic but money is equally essential for love to blossom. 

How would you treat your spouse to a nice meal in a good restraunt when you don't  have money? How would you show her you love her on your anniversary without showering her with gifts?.  The little little things counted as kind gestures and gestures of love needs money to come to fruition so I'd  say money and love are both equally important only that love supercedes  money on the hierechal level. 

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