Steemit - Psychologist. Thank you all. Hard stories from life.

A week ago Steemit came into my life, and I wrote here my sad story. I dropped great weight off one's mind, I felt much better. It was very important for me that people sincerely believed in me and supported me. Also, every week I go to a special group, where girls and women with similar problems share their stories and help each other with psychological support. During this time I have heard many horror stories from lives of my new friends in trouble. They helped me to understand that I was not alone and now I feel their support, I gained confidence. Now I want to tell you what I remembered the most.

Nastya 27 years. Five years ago, Anastasia married Igor. She loved him, it was mutual, but sometimes she saw something strange and cruelty in him(he could cry at her and often was happy to fight with the other guys). A year later she born a child. Then we had a crisis in our country, Igor lost his job and he began to drink. When he drank a lot he could shout at his wife and child, and then completely started beating Nastya. Not much. Then he was drafted into the army (there is war at Ukraine now). He served a year and a half, and returned home. It was not quite past Igor. Increasingly, he got drunk and in these moments he became extremely violent and vented his anger on the Nastya. He beat her. When he was not drunk, he took her money and it all started over again. Once he beat Nastya very much and she was in the hospital. Nastia very afraid of him, afraid that he can take her child, that can kill somebody. But even though she said that he could not throw him and only war made him so. She wants to help him.

Ira 22 years old. Her depression goes back to childhood. When she was 4 - Dad died. She is crying, and her mother almost immediately found a new husband. Ira is not very fond of his stepfather. One day her mother had gone for a week on a business trip and left Ira with her stepfather. At night, when Ira was asleep almost stepfather came and began to touch her under the covers. Ira was very afraid and pretended to be asleep. Then increasingly stepfather started doing this and then he say that he will help with “This”and can give some gifts. Ira was afraid she was ashamed and she did not say anything to her mother. Then Ira`s stepfather forced Ira to touch his penis and was excited by it. It lasted up to 14 years until Ira did not find a guy whose dad worked in the police. Stepfather got scared and stopped doing this horrible things. At 16 years Ira went to study in another city and had almost forgotten that nightmare. But half a year ago, she graduated from university and went home to her stepfather and mother, because she had nowhere to live. She saw her stepfather and remembered everything. She became depressed because of these memories and a girl closed from society. She never told this to anyone exept us - she was ashamed and disgusted.

Olga 50 years. Olga with her husband for a long time could not have a baby. Her first and only son was born when Olga was 30. They were very fond of Dima and always indulged him. They tried to provide him with all the best. When Dima was 7 terrible happened - his father died in a car accident. But Olga did not give up, she tried to secure Dima by herself and got a second job. She did not see her son very often but dima had everything he want. But Olga`s health became worst. At 16 years old Dima contacted by drug addicts. Two years later, Olga retired. Dima increasingly not slept at home, and sometimes stole money from mother. Then he began to steal value things from house. Olga tried to speak with him, but she was blinded by her love for son, and Dima lied to her. As a result, when the house does not have anything particularly valuable Dima began to demand money from mother, and when she did not give - to beat her. He shouts and beats his mother. Olga did not know what to do. She still loves her son and does not want to go to the police.

Tanya 18 years. Up to 14 years old Tanya lived with her grandmother in the village. His father left them, and her mother died when Tanya was 8. To ensure a bright future for the child grandmother sold everything and they moved to the city. There Tanya went to a new school. She has always been a quiet girl and a good student. Somehow, the new class has not taken Tanya. They envied her good grades and told to go away to her village. Baiting was began. Girls talk shit on her and sometimes threw gum in her hair. Some of the boys kicked and beaten her, they bashed her over the head by books. Of course, not all at once begun, it was like a snowball rolling from a mountain. Once, when Tanya was 15, the whole class went to picnic and the main instigators of a class brought some vodka. They drank, and dragged Tanya to the bushes, where undressed her, soiled with mud, ketchup and mustard. They took her clothes and Tanya had to return naked and dirty. She was a complete laughingstock for classmates.

Veronica 31 years. She is afraid of night clubs and has no friends. She just does not trust people. When she was 22 years old she and two of her girlfriends went to a club. In the midst of the fun they went to the toilet. Toilet unfortunately was a general. As they finished everything they tried to leave the toilet but two drunk man blocked the door. They said that two other girls can go, but Veronica is staing with them. Then they pushed Veronica into the toilet cabin and raped her. Veronica was very sick, and she prayed for staing alive. After the nightmare rapists went away and Veronica slowly went upstairs. Her friends have fun talking with some boys and did not pay attention to Veronica. The police laughed at her but took a statement. Of course no one was found. After that Veronica does not believe people.

Remember this horrible stories, love your women, and never allow such terrible things. Your support is very important. I sincerely hope that you will never have violence in your live.