The social ladder
I think the social later doesn't matter because it's made up and you can easily make up something else it's just what you believe in. And of coarse it's easier to believe something that a lot of people believe. But it's way stronger to believe in something you believe in regardless of what other people think. And I know people are programmed to care about what other people think of them to survive and stuff. But in this day and age it isn't necessary anymore and not meaningful. You live away happier life if you set your own rules.