My experience getting homeschooled and why I think homeschooling should be encouraged!
Hello steemworld!!
This is my first long form non art related post since... well a couple days ago! Anywho in my #introduceyourself post, I offhandly mentioned that I stopped going to public school after middle school; specifically after 7th grade, and today we're gonna talk about that.
I couldn't find an old kindergarten doodle of my family and myself unfortunately, so I'm presuming it's lost. But I'll add in this really cliche homeschool banner in its stead!
Sauce of photo: http://www.classichousewife.com/about-homeschooling/
So you could say I was your typical and 'normal' student for the first years of my life, I went to school, and did my homework. And probably the best years of my public schooling were when I was in a charter elementary school. Everything was as perfect as anything I had known, we got to paint, play games, do fun projects like making volcanoes and dissecting squids and there was very little monotony. My teachers actively fostered my creativity and drive, and I am so grateful for them all these years later.
But that all changed in middle school, because the charter school finished in 6th grade, and my parents could not afford to send me to a private school. So I got hauled off to my districts standard ol' middle school, and my experience totally flipped. It felt like I was going to prison instead of school; formal greetings, annoying titles, plaster white walls, rows of fluorescent lights and bars on the windows. The classes I had been taking went from explorations of creativity to lecture halls filled with mindless drones penciling away at monotonous material. In one of my favorite classes: art, the painting and doodling was gone, replaced with PowerPoint presentations about art form and history. In science, the hands on dissections and experimentation disappeared and were replaced with printed out handbooks showing us what a lab WOULD look like or how an experiment was SUPPOSED to go. It all felt very draconian. And while that may sound horrifying or pleasing - depending on who you are, the worst part about it, were the kids.
At the time I thought these 'children' were nothing but a bunch of angry, creatively starved and egotistical prepubescent devils, I am now convinced they were this way because of the education system. Anyways it was sad that I had to leave my elementary school friends behind, because these new people were nothing like them. This new bread of peer, traveled in packs, and if you were judged to not be popular enough, well, OFF WITH YOUR HEAD. Since I only owned a couple dresses and much of my clothing was handmade by my mother, I looked somewhat out of place, and in middle school looking out of place is a death sentence. I mostly kept to myself and stayed in the library for much of my free time, but sometimes a clique would wander in, see me and then proceed to mock me, often for not being 'one of them', or being 'lame', because I didn't have the newest purse or whatever else was hip at the time. In retrospect the reasons for the mocking were petty and insignificant. Though unfortunately, I often went home crying to my parents after school, and eventually enough was enough and my parents decided to pull me out.
I should say here that my Mom and Dad are total tiger-parents, both being immigrants they wanted me to be fully accomplished so I could make my own way in this country. So on my first day of home-8th grade, my dad sat me in front of his computer and told me to analyze what I was seeing (he still does that). It just so happened to be a series of algebraic problems, so I did what he asked and thus began a long, long, long process of him teaching me how to teach myself.
Rest assured, my parents did teach me facts and figures but they were more focused on having me build skills. Here's what my average day looked like: In the mornings I did gardening, botany and crafts with my mom, in the afternoons if my dad was home from work, we would do humanities and the sciences and in the evenings I would do languages with my Mom. In every spare minute of time, I was always reading, book after book, and laboring away at whatever assignment was thrown at me.
One of the greatest gifts of homeschooling is the freedom for you to take your education into your own hands and to go at your own pace. So over the course of my middle and high school years, I learned many spoken languages, programming languages, sciences ranging from astrophysics to genetics and much more that you would never see in a public high school! So if you're reading this and your children are currently in a public prison... er.. school, consider taking them out. Sign them up for a YouTube account, get them a library card, encourage them to teach themselves! Maybe even create a Steemit account for them and make them follow all the fantastic scientists, artists, linguists, educators, writers and programmers that we have here on our lovey little platform. If anyone needs more convincing
just take one look at @papa-pepper and his @little-peppers. I rest my case.
As always, much love and many toodles!
Kara
I'm both saddened and encouraged, reading your post. I'm at both an opposite and similar end of the spectrum you're on. The reason I am going to homeschool my children is not because I myself was homeschooled, but because I was a TEACHER, and I realized I never wanted my children to go through what I watched those kids go through/do to each other. Thanks for sharing your story!
I was a bus driver for years.
yes..public school turns sweet adorable children into monsters.
I saw it happen
My granddaughter was homeschooled.
She EXCELLED to the point that she got a scholarship to college.
in my opinion..homeschooling beats publics school hands down.
I couldn't agree more, and that's absolutely wonderful to hear your granddaughter got a scholarship! That is one way to validate all that work! I also wanted to thank you for taking the time to read my post and to let you know I am having a wonderful time reading your work before I go to sleep for the night, I am currently enjoying the Yggdrasil series! Consider me one of your newest avid followers!
I'm glad you enjoy it.
I have serialized other books but you have to go way back to find them.
I'm kind of partial to 'ride the lightning' myself.
Then I will check it out next! 😁
I've been on Steemit since August...and I've been posting books, stories, and other stuff the whole time..
hope you enjoy it.
oh..some of my stuff is available on Amazon in Kindle
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Unfortunately I am too poor to afford a kindle 😕. But I will be binge reading your content wherever I go!
kindle emulators are free and can be used to read e-books on your computer.
that's what I do.
if you keep blogging on steemit you won't be poor much longer.
I've never heard of those! I will look into it when I wake up tomorrow! Thank you again :D
I totallly agree with this friend of mine, he might not think im a friend but I really always enjoy what he says thank you.
Interesting topic, and some great thoughts you have there. Same with public schools here in Norway. It's even worse here. They are indoctrination camps, where kids learn almost nothing of value. I mean..the first 6 years in elementary school is probably OK, but then you only learn meaningless things. I mean..I havent used ONE thing I learned in high school. Not ONE thing. English - thought myself through movies and computer games. Math? Got a cellphone now. Making databases in outdated programmes? Sorry school, the world moves faster than that. There are only a couple of private schools in Norway, but they are not that great. I believe you are correct in your observation. Schools are indoctrination camps where children learn to follow rules and norms, and they are learned through social engineering not to challenge the group-think. You'll get bullied if your different. And teachers do nothing to prevent it. The goal is that make bitter, scared tax payers who dare nothing else than to apply for a job as an employee. I mean..why on earth don't we teach 18 year olds about personal economy in school? Take a wild guess. :) Homeschooling is out of the question in Norway. It is so "far out" that the child protective services are getting concerned.
First hello to my fellow norsky (my papa is from norway), and second it's depressing to hear that's how schools their work... I'm hoping that if you have kids or plan on having them, that you are able to homeschool them!
Cool :) Schools are horrible here. But we're not able to homeschool unfortunately. First of all that's frowned upon, and we can't risk the government taking in interest in our lives, that's very dangerous. They take away a lot of children because parents do things differently. And besides, we have three businesses to run.. But hopefully we can "unlearn" a lot of things he learn, and boost his knowledge. I didnt take the red pill until I was 25. Hopefully we can red pill him much earlier. I think the most important thing kids dont learn is the value of money and self love/selfishness . We must unlearn the bad altruism and try to explain why rational selfishness is the way to go. To love yourself. Only then can you do good. Thanks for the reply :)
I've heard about the interference in people's lives in Norway. That's just terrible. I'm from Holland and it's pretty much the same there. I moved to Ireland, and it's definitely not perfect here, but everything is so much slower, any interference from social workers won't come until the kids are 18 lol. It's much easier here than in the Netherlands and they couldn't get me back there if they paid me!
Yeah, I mean, it's not like most people have anything to worry about, including us. But some sources say over 80% of all children who are taken away shouldnt have been taken..that makes you sort of paranoid. Ireland sure isn't perfect, but I like Ireland :)
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Not sure. It depends on the student and the parents. I had a terrible time homeschooling because the curriculum was religious propaganda, my parents weren't able to help, and I wasn't interested in learning. The only reason I did do homeschooling was because I had bad social experiences. I'm not saying homeschooling is always a bad thing, but if normal school is working well for the kid I think it's probably better to stay.
Oh my... I'm sorry to hear that, I am just talking from my own experience. Though I think the big problem is that you had a curriculum that was as restricted as the one you could have had in public school. But yea as I said, it works for some people, my issue is that we assume it works for everyone. Individuality is key.
Wow, inspiring post. I'm still far too young to have my own kids but I do believe that our current educational system is somewhat flawed. I feel like we focus too much on just cramming information to our children that we don't spend enough time to actually really focus on teaching life skills. However, I do think that a big part of having success with homeschooling is the willingness and effort put in by the parents as well. It sounds like your parents did a great job homeschooling you.
Great, post. something to think about. I am not keen on the way most curriculums are taught within the school system. I used to think it was important though for socializing your child. However with the amount of bullying that goes on I think there are better ways - so long as integrating with other children and in social environments is still taken into consideration. We like the premise behind Steiner schools as it is less regimented. I guess it comes down to the child and the parent, it takes a lot of commitment from both sides.
We're homeschooling our kids. So far they're way ahead of other kids their age, and contrary to what others think, they're way more socialized than their regular school counterparts. We try to do lots of activities and experiments, but the biggest thing is time. A lot of time in regular school is waiting for other kids, whereas at home you just do your projects/activities/skills, and move on. And like you, they get personalized attention, whereas in school, the teacher is split between 10-20 other students.
Also, we teach them a lot about mindset, success, and happiness. If you're interested in those kinds of things (and who doesn't want to be happy and successful), I would like into bob procter, tony robbins, earl nightingale, warren buffet, charlie munger, steve jobs, etc. All free on youtube or your library.
I had a horrible experience at school, so I didn't want my kids to have the same experience. I hope yours turns out better.
Thank you for writing such a succinct and detailed response! I am so glad you took the time to read my essay! You are totally correct, homeschooling works really well for a lot of people, I was doing a lot of stuff that my parents did when they were in grad school, when I was in 9th homegrade. Nothing truly compares and I like to think I am a better person because I didn't become creatively or emotionally handicapped by the school prison I almost stayed in haha. My experience in homeschool and school in general is just about over, I finish my chemistry and physics classes at community college later this month. I am only 19, but I definitely plan on homeschooling my own children in the future! I have made sure to write down all those wonderful suggestions you have made! I'm actually going to be talking a lot about this topic in the future!
Awesome, whatever you like to do, find models and learn from them. It's so strange how they said "those that can't do teach". Why do we learn from those who didn't succeed?
We've homeschooled our 9 year old daughter since she was school age and this coming year we are going to try our local district (she wants to) I am so worried how it will effect her in numerous ways! My hubby isn't as worried and thinks we should give it a try, but my mom nerves are at their ends already and the school year hasn't even started. Haha
homeschool for the win