How do truly mature people deal with intimacy?

First of all, for the concept of "intimate relationship", I think that both men and women are not limited to lovers and couples. It also includes a harmonious and harmonious relationship with close friends and relatives. The two parties with intimate relationships trust each other, support, and have a sense of responsibility full of love.
Mature people generally have these commonalities in intimate relationships:

1. Personality is independent and does not depend on a certain relationship
   Mature men and women still retain their own personal principles in front of their lover. They will not lose their self-principles and positions because of the closeness of each other. When there is any problem with intimate relationships, mature people can persist in themselves. Not humble, not unreasonable to the other party or rely on this relationship.
2. Know how to control emotions

A mature person can always maintain a gentle and cordial attitude in front of a lover or a loved one. Even if you express strong dissatisfaction with him and want to have a big fight, he may express his silence in silence, perhaps in a simple and powerful language. His thoughts, but will not have a positive conflict with you, their emotional control ability is particularly strong. In comparison, they are more psychologically able to understand people, know how to clarify the truth step by step, and be more tolerant of some of your excessive words and deeds.

1. Respect each other and give more personal space

Therefore, they know how to face intimate relationships rationally, so mature people know how to grasp and respect each other's private space. Even if people who are close to you can't get along often, they will give you enough security and trust, not control your spare time, and better protect your personal space.
He will respect your friends and loved ones, and will not interfere with your relationship with them. Even a close lover will give you freedom beyond family life. No binding is not limited, of course, at the same time, he also has his own work or personal relationship that requires your respect.
Mature people don't easily establish close relationships with people, and they don't get close to others in a short time, but they don't suffer from each kind of relationship. They know how to resolve your negative emotions and solve problems with practical actions. To give more positive power to people in intimate relationships.