The More and Everything Complex

As we are aware men and women come equipped with their own specific traits, qualities, and characteristics. Yet there is something unique that sets these genders apart. This certain element is the upside and folly of these two genders, the gift and the challenge. The single quality that distinguishes the genders is men want more and women want everything. The simplicity should not be confused by the deeper meaning.

Men come with a linear singular focus that is required on setting and attaining goals. A type of tunnel vision that allows a man to reach a designated target or destination without distraction. By using this pragmatic approach, it allows men to practically reach and ascend to new heights. Having a greater capacity of the 'more' attribute is what sets men apart from their peers. It is a quality every man has, how he utilizes that particular quality is ultimately up to him. Men on some level know and realize that more will come with sacrifice. The sacrifice will come in the form of loss. The loss of relationships, family, friends, loved ones, etc. Sacrifice is essential to manifestation. The challenge of men's ability of wanting more, is unknowingly excluding all things that the man deems as unnecessary. This will undoubtedly bring resentment on this man. In order for a man not to lose sight of all that is important to him while wanting and attaining more, he must develop emotional intelligence.

Women understand the nature of reality far quicker than men do. Consequently, women understand emotional intelligence, connection and relationships at a much earlier age than men who learn these things later on in life and because of this, women tend to be overly ambitious with their wants and desires. Women suddenly find themselves wanting everything due to figuring out life's qualities early on. We've all heard women are never satisfied. It might seem admirable to want everything but in life this is not realistic. Women must understand to balance aspects for the purpose of have fulfilling relationships and in order to balance these aspects, women will have to instill discipline, guidelines, restrictions, and boundaries into their core beliefs.

Men can help women shift from the wants and desires of everything by helping the woman instill guidelines, restrictions, boundaries and discipline routinely. Just as women will need to help foster more emotional intelligence in men. Men and Women are complimentary pieces of a larger puzzle that can truly help each other strive to wherever they want to go in life. For this to happen, we need to assist the opposite gender with the traits, qualities, and characteristics that comes naturally, while helping to develop their natural strengths.