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Hey, I'm sympathetic with you but just have to put this out for you. Things never fall into anyone's lap. You have to strive for doing what you want. I don't know the circumstances in which you are posting this but it will not get you anywhere by just asking people for things that don't profit them. What I suggest is to tell a bit more about yourself, give context, make others understand what you are going through and give them a reason to follow you. People are kind, but also skeptical. So give them a reason to up-vote you rather than a bland statement. Once again, I sympathize with you but I feel you are approaching this the wrong way.

thanks for the advice

I know I have to actually post something worthwhile. I am still a newb on learning how to blog. any tips would be appreciated

I'll follow you! :) follow back?

yes thanks !

ok so if its a guy asking for help everyone wants to help..but not little girl rebecca..at 44 years old of hell