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I have actually witnessed quite a lot of positive changes in behaviors from many of my friends who changed completely their life after having faith and started a relationship with god!
It's amazing to see how someone who was leading a very bad way of living, completely change like that. Rude people become so sweet and start caring for the community. This is the magic of faith in god.
Everyone has different faiths, but in the end , from my understanding, all religions have the same message, be good and do good. Now of course some people with dirty mentality do the contrary by hiding behind some religion and make it look bad. Well we have to live with it!
The message in the video, as said by the lady is so true ; one does not become Christian just by being born in a Christian country, or because your parents were Christian. And the same goes to any other religious faith.
I hope you understand what I want to explain!
Hi mate,
Thank you very much for taking the time to watch the video and comment.
It’s great that you’ve had the opportunity to witness the change in some of your friends after they started a relationship with God. Certainly that’s what happened in my life, and it was only when my mum witnessed the change in my life that she too wanted to know this Jesus.
I just wanted to comment on your following statement, because it’s a very common belief held by many people. You said Everyone has different faiths, but in the end , from my understanding, all religions have the same message, be good and do good.
This is what I believe too in the past, until I actually started exploring what each religion teaches. Actually each religion differ significantly in every aspect and in fact contradict on many of the core teachings. For example, Christianity teaches that Jesus is God and he proved this by resurrection from the dead, Islam say that Jesus was a prophet and he did not resurrect, so they can’t be both right at the same time. So how do we know who to believe? For me the central question comes down to what did the founder of each faith/religion say about who they were. The Buddha never claimed to be God, Muhammad who founded Islam said he was only a prophet, only Jesus claimed to be God, and proved it by resurrection from the dead. So for me, the most important question is ‘Is Jesus really who he claimed to be and did he really resurrect from the dead to prove this?’
You are right in that many religions teach that we need to ‘do good and be good’, but in fact that’s not what Christianity teaches. Jesus and the Bible teaches that we can’t earn our way into a relationship with God. No matter how hard we try, no one will be able to do enough or be good enough, because we are all in the same boat, we have all sinned and deserve God’s punishment for our sins. Christianity teaches that we can only be right with God because of what Jesus has done. Only Jesus lived a perfect life and took the punishment for our sins on the cross. So we are only able to be forgiven for our sins and have a relationship with God when we accept what Jesus has done and accept him into our life to lead our lives. Like the example in the video, the choice to open the door to allow Jesus to come into our hearts rests with eachindividual person. When we invite Jesus into our lives, we become a new creation, and our thoughts and passions are transformed by the Holy Spirit (the Spirit of Jesus), and only then can we have a relationship with God, and are empowered to truly live out the life God intended for us. So for me I never consider ‘Christianity’ a religion. Religion is all about rituals, and needing to do enough good to earn your way to be accepted by ‘God’. Christianity is about having a relationship with the Creator of the universe and Jesus who loves us so much to the point of choosing to die in our place.
Hope this make sense. Thank you once again for taking the time to engage in these discussions. I appreciate your honesty and your questions. Please feel free to be totally honest with any other views you want to share or questions you want to ask.
Until next time, take care mate.
Jimmy, I have just 1 issue with the response above. You said:
Do you punish your children for making mistakes or do you lovingly guide them and teach them not to make the same mistakes again? I do not believe that 'might is right'. Punishment does not create a loving relationship. Instead it creates one of fear and resentment. If you truly show your children love, they WANT to earn your respect and approval. There is no reason for punishment. I used to fear my parents and I did not want my children to fear me. I never had to punish my children and they turned out quite well.
Hi @happyme, sorry I’ve had a busy weekend and only had time to respond now. Thank you for taking the time to read other discussions in the comments. It’s a good question you ask, and here’s my attempt at responding to it.
That’s very good parenting advice, and sounds like you did a great job parenting your children. But you know what… God has done the same for us. God has always loved us; all the beauty in creation, the gift of relationships, and above all the love revealed through Jesus. You won’t truly know the full extent of God’s love until you understand the sacrifice of Jesus on the cross.
The thing is that God has always wanted to ‘lovingly guide us’, and with many people, that’s what God has done for them all their lives. But for many of us, myself included for a large part of my life, we have rejected God and refused to be lovingly guided by him. For some people, no matter how many times God has reached out to them, they have rejected him, and so God allows them to live with the consequences of their sins.
Another thing we need to understand here is God’s justice and holiness. Here’s a part of my response to @maninayton with a similar question he had:
“You say these things because you can’t fully appreciate the concepts of holiness and justice. Many people in the world cannot receive justice for the things done to them in this life time, some because they don’t have the opportunity and other because they don’t have the power. Our judicial systems in the world are flawed because we as people are limitted. But God hates all these evils in the world, and only he can bring about true justice for the wrongs people have chosen to commit. But what kinds of evil deserves punishment and demands justice? As people, we tend to think we are better than others and we are not that bad, but that’s because we can’t fully grasp the holiness or standards/purity of God, in that we have all done wrongs in hurting others. The fact that God chose to voluntarily take the punishment we deserve for us and
suffer in our place, if this isn’t the most amazing act of love, I don’t know what is. He is merciful and patient, patient in waiting for us to come to our senses and
turn back to him.”
Hope this addresses your question and comment. Thanks again for the discussion.
Until next time.
Jimmy
Thanks Jimmy! Please don't feel like you MUST reply immediately. Your daily chores of looking after yourself and your family need to take priority over this course. A response is still just as valid even after several days. I can sense your passion for this topic and that is admirable. Your comments are always respectful and appreciative. I have no idea what you were like in the past, but you seem like a very nice person now. I'm glad to have had the opportunity to meet you here on this platform.
Thank you very much @happyme. I appreciate that. I’m really thankful to have met you here too. You ask great questions and are always open to hearing different points of view. I’ve really enjoyed engaging in the various discussions with you.
Yes, I have a deep passion for this topic because honestly I can say that this relationship with Jesus has totally transformed who I am to the core. It was because my mum saw the transformation in my life that she too decided to explore this faith. That is why I am so passionate in telling other people about Jesus, because I believe he is the truth and the one who I’ve unknowingly been longing for all my life.
I haven’t had an easy childhood as I have written about in my introduction and mini-memoir series, but God has taught me about love, given me joy and peace which were so foreign to me, and a passion for life I never had in the past. He has enriched my life in so many ways and freed me from many of my fears and destructive behaviors in the past. I’m still a work in progress, but I know I am different now. J
Thanks again for your encouragement and taking the time to listen. J
Jimmy
I'll need to check out those posts when I have more time.
I can imagine your enthusiasm is similar to what many new and some old members of Steemit feel about this platform; it actually becomes addictive and you want the whole world to enjoy the feeling you have.
The important thing is that you seek personal improvement and greater understanding which improves your relationships with everyone.