I am sorry for your pain. The pastor of a church I went to many years ago was abusing his step daughter as well as some others in the church. Police were involved (thankfully) court, plea bargains, sex offender list, probation etc. Twenty years goes by, last I saw on from pics on FB, they were together for Christmas like nothing had happened....that's the saddest part. I'm more of a never forgive and never forget kind of guy.