3 types of LOVE during the lifetime.

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First love.

Our first love usually happens while we are young.


It can start in the elementary school, high school or also in the university. You can meet each other at the school canteen or somewhere on the campus. 

When you meet each other you are pretty sure that should happen and it\"s probably signal from Galaxy. 

After your first date, you feel that it\"s exactly what you need in your life right now. 

You met someone who is the same as you are. Who is in stress because of tomorrow test from algebra same as you are.

With who you can share all these everyday bullshit from the school what pissed you off and who listen to you and feel with you because you\"re on the same boat. 

You feel that it\"s just you two against the world... Fighting together.


But honestly? In the beginning, it seems to be nice, a great love story where is probably the biggest problem just school... 

After some days, months or years there is, unfortunately, cheating from one side of the partner, sometimes from both of you. 

You trying to plan the future but no one truly believes that is going to really happened. 

You slowly find out that your life ideas or way of living are different. 

And there is the end. 

You still respect each other, you spent a beautiful time together but you finished your journey. One of you want to go right, the second one to the left. 


You ended your relationship with a positive mind and you wish to each other bright future.

After a few months later when you have still old photos in your phone where you are together, you remember just a nice time spent together. 


That\"s the first love where you usually find a great experience and unforgettable memories. 




Second love. 

Second love is our best teacher but hurt the most. 


It\"s a long-term relationship. It\"s this type of relationship where you are stuck and you don\"t know how to go out. 

During this, your period of happiness changing period of madness but you feel that it’s normal and that love should be like this. 

You think that love is about to doing compromises and finding some common ways to make both of you satisfied.

Most of the time it doesn’t work.

It’s pretty hard to pretend something to make someone second fully satisfied and happy.

And when you have to pretend something? It’s not happiness.


So you are still continuing because you are scared to stop pretending and just let the relationship go away.

Probably you already live together, maybe you have already kids together. 

The life is still going but you cannot stop have a feeling inside of you what is on the edge between the love and animosity. 


You think that second love is like "no one can have you except me and that\"s why I\"m not gonna let you go and I\"ll rather try to survive with you".


And that\"s why you have with your second love so much disappointment and pain. Which is of course bad... What you figure out when you one day meet the third love. 




Third love.

Third love is the love, what you don\"t want to accept for a long time. 


It\"s something that you don\"t see coming. Or maybe you just don\"t want to see. 


You met someone with who is seems to be everything so automatical, so easy and perfect.

You don\"t believe, you still keep asking yourself "that\"s weird, what the heck is this? Why do I feel so magical chemistry between us? Noooo it\"s not going to happen. It doesn\"t have any meaning."


You still trying to avoid some feelings, you are scared if it\"s real. You need to think about it every single day. You almost can\"t sleep because of it. 

The third love is the kind that comes too easy, and it doesn\"t seem possible to you. 

You can\"t explain the connection. 

When you meet the third love, you don\"t have to pretend anything, no difficult compromises, no pushing. 

You both seem to work out together.


And that\"s it! That\"s the true LOVE. 





What do you think about this article? Feel free to comment below and share with me your opinion. 

I\"m looking forward to seeing your reaction! 


Author: KT