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Yeah, the closeness is the bugger, three months, both parents. Not an easy thing. Cheers lass

it is surprizing how often two go together quite quickly.
it seems to be that they just seem to lose the will to carry on alone
mind you, you are becoming one of the elder members of the tribe now, and you will be looked up to for advise

Yeah, I think it is that they lose the will to go on without the other.

That's the kind of role I really hope not to have but it's happening already sigh.