Get Rejected!
People spend so much of their time afraid of rejection. It's silly really.
We are afraid of the very thing that will propel us closer to our dreams.
We tend to underestimate the benefits of rejection and instead focus on 5,000 things that could go wrong instead of right.
Humans naturally avoid risk. Even when things are in our favor.
Helps You Get Used To It!
When you get rejected, You eventually start to get used to it. Which will make it that much easier to take an even bigger risk the next time. This moves you forward and makes you grow as a person.
Someone who never takes any risk will even be afraid of the smaller risks that come up. But you won't be. You'll be used to taking risks in general. So the larger ones will be less intimidating.
Gets You Closer To Your Goals
Rejection helps you to grow, As long as you don't allow yourself to wallow in your pity when you fail.
It's important to fight to get back up and keep going. This will allow you to gradually move in the direction of your goals.
If you want something bad enough, you can make it happen. Your brain will find more pathways to that destination even if they seem hard to see at the moment.
Every One Has To Deal With It
Everyone gets rejected. Those who don't, Are often not trying hard enough to get closer to those goals.
Facing rejection is a part of life, And even really well known and very successful people have to face rejection at times. J.K. Rowling is an excellent example of that. Imagine a world without Harry Potter!?
Have you ever been rejected? To say that it sucks, doesn't half cover the devastating emotion you experience because simply put, rejection hurts! At odd times, it hurts just that much more than other times, but, shit, It hurts! The sages say rejection is part of growing, part of life, right? And stuff like:"If you never get rejected, you’re not really trying."
In 2010, I stepped up my creative output. But, I got rejected even more and more often than at any time before.
I reviewed all of my 2008 rejections, and it felt like crap. Looking through the 2008 rejections file I had to relive the entire painful experiences in one gigantic session. It turned into a most valuable exercise when I eventually discovered what mistake I kept repeating every time I tried to set up a new business...
Yes!! I have been rejected, Many times. It's really rough. And a few times I felt like giving up. But sometimes you just have to kick yourself in the butt and keep going even though the pain is unbearable.
Wow!! I love that you took the time to review everything! It makes such a big difference, And it's so often when we are making the same mistake again and again without realizing it. And at that point something has to dramatically change for us to move forward.
Ya, rejection hurts
OMG Too funny LOl
Hahaha this is tough rejection..
Right? To get pushed down lol
Eeeh that was really mean.
This kind of rejections are the kind that make people fear rejections the more...lol
The pain we hear from being rejected is as real as the pain we experience from beating food or falling from stairs! Because our brain is programmed to react like this.So we are afraid... @kaylinart
True! But we have to conquer the fear so we can move forward in life.
Allow the heart to be always on! And do not be afraid... @kaylinart
Indeed !
Fear of rejection holds people back more than They realize. Great articles, keep them coming!
This the kind of post you really need to read when you got rejected, to raise a little your head up!
You're exactly right!
in this life you can be happy only when you decide without thinking. A man who is not afraid of anything ...
The beauty will not be repeated much, when the rejection we do a lot, we finally regret already doing his @kaylinart.
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Great post. First time when you get rejected it sucks, it hurts. But then you get thick skin. "You can not live without failing at something, unless you live so cautiously that you might as well not have lived at all in which case, you fail by default" by J.K. Rowling !
Sometimes things can be different but I agree with some dimension @kaylinart