Just Be Yourself
There is a difference between being there for each other while you're dating and and when you're maintaining a girlfriend....if I have to maintain my girlfriend because we are in a relationship in other for her not to look elsewhere or in other for another guy not to do it for me, then I don't or deserve to be in that relationship.
Truth be told, there will always be someone out there is richer than you and who is ready to spend more than you do. Social media has made life a competition for "almost" Millennial and everyone is fighting to stay upon. Iberiberism is nothing more than doing pass yourself.