Yes, it really is the basis of the peace among difference that we need in our world. First we must learn to have that even within ourselves, at least some of the time, at least to know how to access it. Then when in situations of conflict with others there is the possibility we might access that same skill then and find a way to meet within mutual respect and even collaboration around those things where we do share values. This is how we avoid the trap of "letting the perfect be the enemy of the good," where people who 90% agree still can't work together.