#3 // When life turns from Colorful to Black and White

Quitting is not losing, it sometimes means you are smart enough not to let people use you for their own reasons.

Have you ever experienced waking up in the morning and asking why are you here right now? Or before you sleep you think, why you do the things you did that day? Have you ever experienced doing the things you are excited before but not now?

At first it was so good, it feels great. Being with the people you thought would help you grow, the people whom you think are doing the same things you wanna do. The people you think are walking the same path as you.

But later on, as you are living with them, you see their real colors, their real selves, their real motives. And aside from that, the things that you are expecting are totally opposite of what the really do. So disappointing right? But what is more frustrating is that you can’t do anything about it. All you can do is to say ‘YES’ and follow what they want.

You maybe question yourself, why you are still there? Maybe you are just afraid of what will happened next if you quit. They said, when you quit, think about why you started. But what if that reason is now impossible to achieve?

Then you'll realized, life is so limited, we should live our lives to the fullest. It’s not bad to give up! Make everything simple. It’s not worth it anymore if you’re not happy. You need to improve, you need to flourish. Do not be the loser because you are staying, be the fighter. Quitting is not losing. It sometimes means you are smart enough not to let people use you for their own reasons. It is sometimes a sign that you are brave enough to move out from your comfort zone. You may be feel its not you anymore, but I'm telling you, it is still you. You are not weak, so be strong!