Are you happy in your relationship? 10 signs of someone who's in a good relationship

 The person who always looks good is in love today. Did she fall in love well? What kind of love is a "good love"?

 Shining every day, occasionally smiling, occasionally crying, the face of the fickle girl is very attractive.   

There was a woman who was in a very good relationship. Everyone wants to have a good relationship. But why is it so hard? Many people fall into self-loathing when they see a relationship going well.   

It's hard to tell if a relationship is going well. 

This time, take a look at what "people in a good relationship" do:

   

(1) Not comparing yourself to others   

"You are you, I am me", people who fall in love well don't compare themselves to others. 

   

(2) Have a goal   

It may seem effortless, but it's actually self-denying.   Always have a goal in mind, in order to achieve the goal of running around. Because you have goals, make sure you spend your time and don't give it all to your partner.   

(3) Go my own way   

"Let's meet today." Cancel the appointment immediately if called by someone you like... People who are in good relationships don't do things like that.   

Even if be like of person suddenly call out, also want to make an appointment first! This is also a beautiful expression of love. Even if it's an emergency call, go if you want to go, don't go if you don't want to go.   

Stick to your rhythm, but it's also important to stick to the agreed "balance." 

  

(4) Anticipate the future   

One side has her own goal, one side can see future the future with him clearly, this is the evidence of smooth love. 

They don't go out of their way to say "let's spend it together" on Christmas and anniversaries. People who fall in love well always see the future. It's gonna be together forever.   

(5) Has it become lovely recently?   

Beautiful love, will let a woman shine. Someone who is in a good relationship will often be commented on as "recently, has she become cute?"    

(6) Don't vent bad feelings on others   

Every time want to let him feel together "negative", such love, will gradually away from the good. 

When you are feeling down, you should first face yourself.   People who fall in love well always digest their own negative emotions and do not infect them with their "disease".   

(7) Value female friends   

No matter how important he is, he will never abandon his female friends.   

Because he suddenly wants to meet, so want to cancel the friend's appointment, such girl cannot have a good love. He is important to her, but so are her friends. Seriously abide by the agreement, is the love of the people.   

(8) "Compromise" on some points   

"Actually, I want to date someone more handsome... "There is no denying that everyone's heart is always longing for something better, but in a good relationship, there is always some compromise to love.   

The rose is beautiful at first sight, but knows it has thorns, and from that experience, it is happy to find that one likes the lovely flowers at one's feet.   Painful love does not allow compromise, even if the thorn pricked, also want to continue to aim for the rose of high competition rate, do not look at the foot. 

In a good relationship, there are compromises and a happy balance   

(9) Choose "believe"   

Every time something happens, looking for "proof" is the beginning of a painful relationship.   

It was strange to say "I trust you" on my lips. What I really believed was that he was there for granted, together for granted.   

(10) Because of love   

Why are you with him? Because of his appearance? His money? Neither.   

"Because I love him," is the usual response from people in successful relationships. The rule of a good relationship is to "live your life."   

The decision of "living for lovers" will be regretted one day.   

People who have good love experience fall in love to enrich their life. Because they know that love is illusory, but life is eternal. Rather than live for her lover, she wants to live happily with him.   

Love is the object of the establishment, but, to love the rules are not in the other side of the heart, but in their own heart.   

In order to have a good relationship, it is not necessary to "live your partner's life", but to "live your own life".