What about if we're just like "ehh..." about them, but don't really have much of an opinion? I didn't even know it was you. Is that the lighting or the editing that makes it look like you have a paper face with no nose?

I actually expected a way worse story. I've heard a lot worse. That only seems like a normal shitty photographer story. It's definitely incredibly important to be very selective of who you work with. You chose to mostly work with yourself because of that. Seems like a fine choice.

So is occasionally working with others, and just being careful.

Your way is probably safer since you have more control.