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Indeed, i hadn't thought about being deliberate with my hands. Will have to try that out, is their any examples you can give for hand gestures/movements for positive and negative affects?

Minor movements. Thumb towards self:
"Tell me about your ideal candidate for this job" *slight thumb to self.

"Yes, there are always some negative people having bad day" * Wave hand out and away to "them".

Nod head slight yes when trying to get a yes..."you can get me into the concierge level tonight?"

Practice on your family and friends. A little goes a long way in the subconscious of your audience. *more later in my next post

The self point is probably the most useful for me, especially when trying to create attraction and comfort.