Thank you so much. I will take a look at this site. I am open to anything right now and just wrote a post about this.

I can't tell you how much your upvotes and support mean to me. Thank you very much.

PS - I had a similar situation with an ex-husband in the early 90's. He got everything and I started over just fine from nothing although the first year was bad. This is one of the times I think of now to give me hope.