I absolutely love my 3 children. They are my entire world (especially being a stay at home momma!). I have a twin sister who has no kids. One of the biggest reasons is that she wants to be able to travel and go on a seconds notice. I definitely can not do that! Being a mom has its ups and downs, and not having kids does as well. I agree, it's so imparitive to support whatever decision is made and not expect that all women want children. It doesn't make them selfish, having a child and still trying to live like you have no responsibilty is selfish. Not having children because of what you want in life is saving the selfishness that may come by having them. Lets encourage and support eachother instead of judging a woman for not wanting kids 💗