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@cortexx, congratulations!! as a proud father of two sons i can give you some tips:

  1. in the first 6-8 weeks you both will have sleep deprivation, so be prepared
  2. Have the iniative to help your spouse whenever you can without being asked (i.e. wash dishes, change diaper, let your spouse sleep and rest,etc)
  3. build a bond with your kids by spending time with him/her at LEAST 30 MINS a day WITHOUT any GADGDETS. That is really important
  4. ENJOY all process:)

thanks :)

me, a mother of four, is not easy..i had to multi task all.from household chores to sending my kids in school and after that i had to go to work.i had no seminar when i had my first baby but i think its the mother instinct who teaches me most