Boosting Your Self-confidence with Logical Assessment of Your Capabilities...
Hello, dear Steemians!
Confidence is that positive energy which comes to your rescue when everything goes wrong and helps you stand on your feet in moments that you are completely blank as to how you should overcome your challenges.
But boosting your self-confidence is a delicate matter which requires a lot of attention. Self-confidence is not achieved through the power of suggestion; where the subjects constantly tell themselves that they are capable of doing something, while all the logical assessments of their capabilities prove otherwise.
This is not to say that the power of beliefs doesn’t have a role to play in the quality of your performance, but it should be noted that self-confidence is a whole different matter and should be thus treated as such.
The first step towards boosting your self-confidence in a logical manner is to garner the attention of the people you interact with. Family members, friends, colleagues and employers are all susceptible to our aura of self-confidence and how we approach and react to their words and actions determines the impression we leave on their minds.
And if you want to leave a truly mesmerizing impression, you need to work on your body language. Your body language and gestures are of the utmost importance when you are interacting with other people.
Sometimes you take a look at a person’s face and realize that they don’t even acknowledge themselves as someone who is worthy of respect!
This is probably the most problematic aspect of your relationships and how well you handle them based on your self-confidence. If you do not have the attention and respect of those you interact with, you cannot hope to exploit your self-confidence and improve your chances of success.
In the coming days and weeks, I am going to write a series of articles about body language and gestures, but for now, I will leave you with several tips that can help you in this matter.
When you meet someone, shake their hands with strength and show them a powerful grip. This is the first sign that they are dealing with someone who they should take seriously. Whenever you talk to someone, keep your head up at all times and look at their face with determination and resolve.
Never get lost in your own thoughts when you are talking with someone, as it shows a lack of self-esteem and concentration.
Moving away from body language, we come to another aspect of self-image that can improve your confidence.
Always dress well and be mindful of your appearance! What you wear may not be the best determination of who you are and how you think about the world, but people have this cognitive error that puts them in a place of judgement regarding how well you appear and take care of your image.
Besides, making sure that you look good is also a sign of your determination. If you wear good clothes and appear splendidly in front of someone that you are expecting to work with, that person will appreciate the respect that you have for him and gives back that respect.
This will ultimately prove to boost your self-confidence.
Positive energy brings forth positive results. Always try to see the silver lining in everything and always smile, even if you are not feeling fine.
Be grateful of the things you have and the opportunities that life has given you.
Every moment is an opportunity, and every opportunity is a blessing. It is only a matter of your perspective. The fact that you are here reading this blog could be a sign that you need to change something in order to realize your dreams and become who you were meant to be.
It might be difficult to make a habit out of the things we discussed in this article. But by taking on the endeavor, you will eventually boost your self-confidence and earn the respect of the people around you.
A BIG HUG!
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Important Note!
I have been working very hard on this blog since the beginning. I have a very busy life but I am giving my best and believe me I have shared experiences that I have been coaching thousands of people and I know that the change of the Mindset should be daily. I am already grateful to see you giving upvotes to each other and you can see this with the fact that many already have 8, 9, 10 upvotes. But I'm sure that with the effort of all of us we will see a community with, 40, 50, 80 upvotes and for that everyone should get engaged so we can make it come true. I believe and we can! Resteem...
***Remember Community: Please, if you commented and upvote on a new post I did, please always go back to the previous one because if someone in the community commented lastly because of time zone differences it will be without your upvote and that would not be fair.
You all know the goal! We can reach: 50+ Upvotes each others!
Attention!!!
I'm reading all the meaningful comments from the posts.
I am here making a list of all of you who have helped build this community by voting for each other who write meaningful comments and soon I will respond to everyone with comment and thank you all because I can already see this spirit being built in this Positive Mindset community and help between all of you.
You will receive my upvote in all material and brief comments I will do this in all the posts I am following very closely and I can see what the people who are generous and contribute to this legacy that I am trying to build with all of you can become reality in a short time.
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First of all, I would like to thank all of you, who are the most active and proactive in this community, showing your generosity and always with meaningful comments. From now on I will always make a list of these incredible people who have helped to expand our goal of growing ever more.
But I ask that if you are new around here you read many of the previous posts because they make it clear that we are building a community with respect among all, generosity and this blog is for those who really want to start moving their Mindset to positive and moreover be part of the growth of all of us who contribute to this blog. Please do not ask to include you in the list if you are just wanting upvotes because we want here people genuinely attuned to growth and good attitudes and as I have always said with Respect as the basis of all, generosity and positivity!
ABOUT OUR LIST!!! WE NEED GROW THIS LIST! LET'S GO TOGETHER IN THIS COMMUNITY - RESTEEM!
Feel free if you want to be included in the list of contributors to this community. Just ask at the end of your comment.
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Thanks All of You!!!!
Great write up, thought provoking!!
How's it feel to be building your personal echo chamber? Do you really care about people or are you more concerned about your persona and what they think about you?
You understand your whole approach seems to be about essentially lulling people in for what they can hope to get from you?
They see your payouts and think "Gee golly that person must have money!". I wonder if you really have much to give your followers after your vote selling overlords take their cut. I am doubtful of such a possibility.
I keep it real and I must say that I despise your methods because it puts the common man at a disadvantage and that makes you a scoundrel in my eyes.Make no mistake. You along with the other incorrigible vote buyers are my adversary but a certain person has told me to love one such as you. Therefore, I persist for the betterment of this platform however you seek the high seat with your constant bidding.
The LORD Jesus said something that I think applies to person such as you.
Luke 14:10-11 KJVS
But when thou art bidden, go and sit down in the lowest room; that when he that bade thee cometh, he may say unto thee, Friend, go up higher: then shalt thou have worship in the presence of them that sit at meat with thee. [11] For whosoever exalteth himself shall be abased; and he that humbleth himself shall be exalted.
I think that may partially explain the philosophy as to why I do not use the bots as you do. I think about about my disadvantged brother or sister that is striving for the seat the bot owners give you but you do not see this, do you? You are building a cult following of people that want something.
You deceive yourself if you believe they are following you out of the sincerity of their heart rather than what they may acquire through their sycophancy. The discerning know better.
Look at Haejin. All that rep and hardly a soul would trust a man as that. What does that say?
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If you read my old posts, you would know more about me and see that I help people. How many Steem have you invested in the last month? This helps people if you do not know. How many US dollars have you donated in the last 2 months? I donated over six thousand to people who did not have anything to eat in their countries. If you are already satisfied I can tell you that I am more than you in not having you in this community (blog) Regards. You are disrespectful and negative and that is enough for me.
I've see you from the beginning. Have you seen @themarkymark's recent post? You are literally the number 1 taker from the reward pool.
Congratulations on your investment but I think you are missing the point. I read a recent post that had some profound implications about social media. How we use it says something about us and have you ever stopped to consider what it says about you.
You may call me negative or disrespectful but the fact of the matter is I am frustrated and disappointed. I did invest my Bitcoin and now my tokens our worth about a fourth of what I put in.
In my heart, I want to fix this place. I would love to dismantle the bots. I want to empower people and communities. But our method's stand in stark contrast to one other.
Motivational speech is great and all but do you really need the bots? Can you content stand on it's own? What are you afraid of @chbartist?
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Upvoted for visibility. I think this is an interesting conversation for a number of reasons. First, the use of the rewards pool for promotion. There is a limited amount of Steem created each day. It is quite sad to see so much of it used for promotion. I would rather it be used to reward popular content.
Second, is @chbartist's work popular purely because of promotion or does the merit of the content itself play a big role? The answer to this question is obscured because of the bot votes. Frontrunning of bot votes further adds to the problem. @chbartist has been very successful prior to joining Steem, I would expect that would earn more upvotes as well. A few unpromoted posts would give us a better idea. The above statements apply to anyone putting their content on trending using bots.
We can blame vote buyers and vote sellers as much as we like but the frontends (steemit, busy, etc) of Steem have yet to offer a viable promotion alternative. Adding promotional services to a Steem front-end doesn't require a hardfork. So we can't blame witnesses for that either.
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I expect he could be successful here without buying votes, but he seems addicted to doing so.
I expect so. He has a very strong following here and has support on both Facebook and Instagram. I would love for him to test it.
Well said. He may say we are toxic for criticising him, but he fails to see the damage he causes to the platform. His greed for rewards that he mostly buys creates false expectations and reduces what others can earn. Shouldn't he thank the bots for seeking him their votes? He's got all over double my followers. Let them decide the value of his posts.
@anthonyadavisii, I would like this whole community to see your comment is no sense sense. What do you know of me to call me a scoundrel? You have no education and you do not know what we are building here in this blog for months. This blog has its foundation in respect and this you demonstrated not knowing what it is. You do not disrespect me only by writing on a level that I will never lower my words. You disrespect the whole community we've been working hard for months.
About Hajin that you mention, I do not know him as a person, I know he's criticized for voting only on himself, and even then I do not judge him because how can I judge someone I do not know, besides who buys millions of steems Do what you want with them. Buy your millions of steem and do what you want with them, too.
But people like you I've dealt with thousands in life vines and know what they do? They measure others with their own rule. I'm not like you because I do not judge. Take care of your blog, invest in steems, upvotes generous people, make donations of thousands of dollars as I do not only in steemit but throughout my journey and then you can try, I said try to say something about anyone. Put yourself in your place and know what you still are not!
How many Steem have you invested in the last month? This helps people if you do not know. How many US dollars have you donated in the last 2 months? I donated over six thousand to people who did not have anything to eat in their countries. If you are already satisfied I can tell you that I am more than you in not having you in this community (blog) Regards. You are disrespectful and negative and that is enough for me.
You need to learn what it is to have respect. If you want to be a sheriff, stay in the US and run for election to be one. If you want to be steem sheriff, control binance, bittrex, bloctrades and the stock market. Sorry, but you see, it's a boy or a child to talk to me and I've spent my time with you too much.
Regards and success with your blog !!!!
From All Community knows and All Of Us that effort all day to be this blog better! Don't burn your upvotes in comments or persons like that. Stay Alert to not upvote in comments like this.
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Good reply @chbartist ... is better don’t pay attention to toxic people. We are built this community with a clear philosophy and without use or to hurt someone.
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Hi @royer94. These conversations are very important. We cannot necessarily see or understand everyone's full intentions but we can analyse the impact of their actions. The rewards pool is fixed. Many people are concerned regarding the amount going to bot votes or 'promotion' as some insist on calling it. For Steem to grow, we need the right balance of rewards going to various parties. These include content creators, curators, passive investors, developers, applications etc. Evidence suggests that too much is going to passive income (vote selling and bid-bots) and not enough to curators. In other words, people are earning more for looking away rather than looking at content.
I notice you are very new to Steem. This place can be quite confusing. I suggest you read as much as possible about the Steem ecosystem. Good luck to you.
Hi @spectrumecons, I appreciate your explication of Steemit system, and also I appreciate the way like you do it. I think that almost everybody in Steemit use bots to bust their accounts and I don’t know any bot illegal inside Steemit system. With regard to the posts and the activity of @chbartist I think that he post good contents and do a good work of curation. From my point of view the intention of @chbartist not is only take money for himself, rather he is helping to guide one little sub-community in @Steemit and improve our stempower to each one have a positive impact on Steemit. Please if you know something different feel free to talk with me. Thanks.
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Hi @royer94, thanks for your response. @chbartist writes posts that are very popular with his followers. He makes effort to read comments and rewards good comments. That is a very good thing. He also encourages others to help each other and has made direct contributions to people. He has also powered up his account which is strongly encouraged.So there is no doubt there is evidence of his generosity as well as good intentions for Steem.
However, @chbartist spends a lot on bots. It appears he spends more than anyone else by a significant margin. I can understand that people use bots for visibility. I have written several posts that indicate that vote buying does little for visibility unless posts get on the all tags trending page or on very popular tag trending pages. Even then, many of these posts make very little money.
Spending so much on bots reduces the rewards pool for other content creators. Very high valued posts also creates unreasonable expectations for new users. It encourages new users to also use bots to further reduce the rewards pool. Spending on bots also reduces the visibility of other people's work and thus forces them to also use bots. In other words, spending a lot on bots is harmful to the community. Many people are angry with @chbartist for doing so. These people lose rewards and opportunities because of this vote buying.
I understand you @spectrumecons. Then use of bots must be restricted on Steemit in order to be more equitable?
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I wish but I don't think so. There is a lot of money to be made from bots and vote selling. I think it is more likely that we will see changes to the reward system.
I apologize for calling you a scoundrel. I don't know the intentions of your heart but you made the top of that list not for giving but taking.
I am not disputing that your blogs have value but let's be honest about our contributions. How about letting the people decide?
I think it is safe to say you are well established with you audience now so are the bots really necessary. Why?
ou would benefit more if you had my coach as someone here in this community. But you only see for one angle. Through your own angle or prism. I really regret that. I could even write more for you, I accept your apology, but on other issues sorry. If you want to be respectful, I will be at the steemchat as I have always been with a very busy life and I can not always respond to everyone and on the same day that they write to me. But poorly I do not agree with disrespectful attacks especially when they are public. Like I told you. Buy 1 million steems, use it yourself if you want, use bots, do not use it, do what you want but you will never see me visit someone's blog to attack, give flags or be disrespectful. May you have all the success in the world. Just remember that Steem is not based only on the Steemit platform. Regards
good! but in Russia this platform appeared not so long ago.So help me get started and understand how this platform works.
Talk to people and build communities around your interests. Make it fun and don't worry too much about the money. That will come if you are doing good stuff. You don't have to buy votes like this guy does
Good!
I find that my self-confidence is boosted by doing the right thing even if it's difficult. We all have choices that we can make that will make us feel better or worse about ourselves. I agree that the choice of attire makes a big difference. Once upon a time I read and have been told "dress for the job you want not for the job that you have."
When you perform your personal and business life actions and speak with integrity you build a reputation and boost your self-confidence.
Just because I look in the mirror and say I am a wonderful person does not make that true. The actions that I perform day-in-and-day-out will make me feel better about who I am and will increase my reputation score in the community.
Right now it's an invisible score, but I have read that in China there is such a thing as a social media reputation score somewhere.
There was a movie that I watched once where you were able to go online and boost or lower the score of another person in your community circle or school. As horrific as that is, we all have a mental reputation score surrounding the people and businesses that we associate with daily Have a blessed day.
Good afternoon
Self-confidence is something that we get with attitude, work, discipline, impetus and, above all, a lot of work, it is very difficult to achieve and, unfortunately, very easy to lose.
Sometimes, in diverse situations that we face throughout our lives, in which we do not obtain the results we expect, we end up losing our confidence in ourselves and then it is difficult to recover them, we need to put a little more motivation to be able to have it again.
I agree with you that when we present ourselves before someone, dress and attitude are a fundamental part of respect, since respect is earned, does not prevail and must be won from the first moment, since a person who does not have the respect for another, then, it is very difficult to earn it.
Respect is one of the main causes because relationships fail because when they lost respect, they lost everything ...
I would like to be able to belong to your community and I ask you to include me, I do not have a great power of vote, but I will do everything possible to support this cause.
Regards ...
Thank you this is great post self confidence perhaps the most important thing that leads to the achievement of the individuals goals is his strong personality and self confidence When a person is confident of himself and his abilities will inevitably reach what he wants even after a while and usually loss of confidence faster than reacquisition what is meant by self confidence What leads to its loss And how can be retrieved again and defines self confidence as the sense of the person himself and his value to translate this feeling on his movements actions and words in addition to his style of dealing with others when his confidence is high this will reflect on his actions very naturally with Because he knows where he goes and how he goes while the lack of this feeling makes him always feel that he is an observer He is always worried and afraid
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Always feel boosting of self-confidence by reading your post.
Very Goods tips, shake hand with a strength, head up while talking, dress well etc.
Eagerly waiting for upcoming post about body languages.
It was always being so interesting and useful that the artical you have post,i seems like god heard and it came out this post that make me felt so blessed.I stay awake till now is because I am looking some thing that you were posting it really helps and comfort me to get me some rest for tommorow is really an important day for me that I been nervous since yesterday .Sometimes I do not have time to finish reading your post I do keep it as my favourite post or anything that you post thank you so much @chbartist hoping to see more post from you that always is was so useful to peoples in real life.
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The way I see things, the most important person who should exist in the world is oneself and one should dress well for oneself as a way of honoring the body that belongs to us in this existence. We must love and value ourselves and the rest will come in addition.
Confidence is a key determinant for success in just about anything, in business, in love, in politics… Confidence is a commonly used word, and as thus, I am certain you have an idea what confidence is...
I´m really sure that you know about self-confidence, which is perhaps the most important aspect of confidence.
It can simply be defined as faith in your own abilities, and It is a positive attitude towards yourself and a deep conviction about your ability to accomplish your goals.
Self-confidence enables you to power through even the most difficult situations and face challenges head-on. As a self-confident person you will be in a position to push through even situation in which you have neither external support nor material possessions and still retain the belief that you will come out victorious.
This is the ability to maintain a positive view of yourself and your abilities in any situation and under any circumstances is a value we should all strive to cultivate. Adopt a way of thinking that constantly reminding yourself that you are a person of value and ability and; happiness, success, as well as general improvement in your life’s quality will quickly follow.
Amazing @chbartist ...!!!