I think you're too hard on yourself sometimes. Its ok to forget things and nothing is perfect in this life. What matter the most is to enjoy life as it comes. Everyone had fun and I bet no one even thought about the missing ham in the soup! Now if you excuse me I will eat some ham cause thanks to you I have cravings hahaha
I am too hard on myself. I have expectations for both me and my children - I expect us to always do our best. Most of the time it works out in our favors, but there certainly are times when less than is alright. Wine always helps with accepting less-than :)