THE TRUTH ABOUT BEING A SINGLE MOTHER.. HOW HARD IS TO BE A SINGLE MOM.

in #life7 years ago (edited)

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i was 16 , when i got pregnant with my korean boyfriend . he gives me a lot of promises .. when i am 6 months pregnant he told me that he need to go back to korea to settle some things . so next time i can go there with him.. but since the day he left until now, i never heard about him. i never receive a messages from him. its really hard to wait for nothing, its really hard to be a single mom and the hardest aspect of being a single mother is that if your baby has health problems .

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she's now 1 year and 6 months ..
I love her more than I ever thought possible, but when I started this parenting journey I never imagined doing it alone. I never expected to be a single parent .that moment when you finally break down and let the tears flow. Our lives are hard and we need a good cry every once in a while, but when I cry alone it just seems to magnify the fact that there is no one here to help me. I realize that it’s up to me and only me to pull myself back together and that I have no choice but to do so. There is no one there to help me.

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The burden of knowing that I am the only person invested in my baby's future is a hard one to bear. it can feel very overwhelming and lonely.
there is nothing that feels worse than seeing my baby sad face and knowing that I can’t give her what she want.
Sometimes I wish I could just give her what she want, because as a parent, sometimes I simply just want to see her happy.

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but i am so thankful to god , that he give me a reason to live. she is a reason why i need to be strong.
i know its really hard but i have to take my responsibility as a mother. i have to be strong .

thanks you so much for reading my fellow stemians !

hope you will upvote and follow me.. thank you ..

GODBLESS

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Your daughter is beautiful. Welcome to Steemit. I too was a single mum for some time before i met my husband. Its not easy. What i found most difficult was come 7 in the evening when i would put my son to bed, that was it. I was on my own. Even if i had no tea it was hard luck cos i couldnt get to the shop.

Single mothers have an inner strenght that only single monthers have. You will be fine and so will your daughter

thank you maam @paulag ..yes its not easy to be alone . when we want to do something , we can't because of them .. but we are so thankful because we have a child :) i am so happy that you're okay now. thanks a lot maam. expect me as your follower and upvoter from now on :)

you will be okay too, and so will your daughter. You are a lot stronger than you think. Keep smiling

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Hola @azilanaitmay825. Muy hermosa tu hija Dios la cuide. Dios te dará la fortaleza para salir adelante. Recuerda, a los niños no hay que darles todo lo que quieren. Hay que administrar lo que se le da y lo que no. Saludos desde Apure, Venezuela/Hello @ azilanaitmay825. Very beautiful your daughter, God take care of her. God will give you the strength to get ahead. Remember, children do not have to give them everything they want. You have to manage what is given and what is not. Greetings from Apure, Venezuela.

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have a nice day too sir :)

Welcome to steemit! Keep steeming. Your really a stron woman. I really admire you.

Hi @azilanaitmay825. It's never easy to be a parent, much more a single parent. I raised my two kids on my own and it wasn't an easy journey. But with fervent prayers, hardwork and God's merciful grace, I was able to pull things through. My kids have successfully finished their schooling and they grew up to be God fearing individuals. Hold on to your faith. There is hope in God. May the Lord bless and keep you both.

wow, your amazing mother maam @jap60 hope i can do that in the future.. all i want is a good future for her. yes maam palagi din po ako humihingi ng guidance kay lord.. salamat :) i am your follower now, expect my upvote too.. :) godbless po

Thanks @azilanaitmay825. Draw your strength from the Lord and let your daughter be your inspiration. Stay blessed.😀

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